Wedding Planning Tips

I am getting married in 3 weeks. A month & a half ago my mom got upset w/ me for something & began the silent treatment. I called & emailed asking her to talk to me to no avail. I still have no idea what was wrong. It’s been awful. Today I get an email from her asking me when I wanted to go out for a girls day & get my pedi/mani for my wedding. I replied- Hey mom, I haven’t heard from you in a month & a 1/2 & suddenly you’re asking me for a girls day, I’m totally confused. please tell me what happened?!” & her response was that she was just totally disappointed in me but I could never change it so I just needed to let it go & move forward. The reason for the girls day is b/c she said she was upholding her obligation to pay for that as she promised months earlier. I begged her to tell me what happened & all she said was that she was reaching out to me but if I kept “biting” her she would stop. I had a choice-take it or leave it. I have no idea how to respond. I feel totally disrespected, left in the dark & emotionally tortured. Why won’t she tell me? How do I respond?

im 15 in grade 10 and iv started thinking about my future a lot but im not sure what to do im gonna b 17 when i graduate high school and i was thinking about not going to school till january and ill be 18 so from the time i graduate and january i would want to get a job and work my other option is taking a year off to just work and make money then go to school
i have always had a passion for make up nails and hair styling and for decorating or even a wedding planner
my mom wont let me be a interior decorator shes so dumb shes like you have to go to peoples houses they can rape you like wtf
i want to do cosmetology school and work at the same times then when im done i want to work at like the body shop and do hair nails and stuff in my spare time but at the same time i want to be a wedding planner too
so what should i do i really need advice

Our wedding is not that far away and I am starting to make detailed plans for it. We are going to Barbados and I want to know when is the best time to leave? I haven’t booked it yet so the sooner you answer the sooner I can book it;) I know that if we leave right after the wedding it will be tiring but at least we have something to look forward to when we’re in the middle of the wedding. If we leave the next day I think that would be a good choice too..Should we leave a week after the wedding? That would give us a lot more time to clean up after the wedding and get everything ready for the honeymoon.
When did you leave for your honeymoon?
I need some ideas!! Thanks beforehand!;)

Him and I met like 30 some years ago and moved in together. But after about 7 months, I got a job at a dance place with performers, and soon enough I was assistant manager. He got upset because I was spending so much time there, but I needed the money, and I loved my job. I threatened him many times to move, and one night me had gone, and I knew it was all my fault. I was 32. I found out I was going to have a daughter and she was great. You are probably wanting me to get to the point. Well now my girl is getting married and she badly wanted to meet her father, and she is very smart and was able to find him using old phone numbers and who knows what. She still lives with me thought she is moving out soon, and a few weeks before the wedding, she went and invited her father to stay in our house. I was not for the idea at first, but I knew how much she wanted him to come, so yes, I agreed. Now the wedding is soon, and I am so into him again. We have great times together when my daughter is gone and we laugh and talk, and he said that he was sorry and so did I. I actually took him back to the dance place and I did a privet show for him and he loved it. I want him to know I like him still before he leaves again. We haven’t kissed, and I am old enough (almost 60 :p blah) to know he loves me back. We watched the notebook, and Moonstruck and we can’t help just looking at each other and even the hand holding thing. I just need to have the guts to make him stay. how do I do that?

i’m planning on visiting a walk-in clinic tomorrow to have a medium sized anal skin tag removed. i’d gone to the doctor about this issue before and decided not to have any sort of procedure done, but have since changed my mind due to the level of discomfort. from what i’ve read, this is a quick procedure, but the healing process will definitely involve some discomfort.
i am supposed to leave for a destination wedding on saturday morning, roughly 72 hours after the procedure will have been completed. i would normally not do this kind of thing before getting on a plane for a long time and then vacationing for a week, but i can’t take this any longer and need to get rid of it so i have some peace of mind.
my question is…from a medical standpoint, will i be okay to fly? i have a high pain tolerance, so i’m not super concerned about that. forgot to ask the doctor when i called today with questions and would like a professional’s input before i go through with this.

I found out that I am pregnant with in the last few days!
My due date is August 14th 2012. I am also maid of honor in my best friend’s wedding September 22nd 2012. The bride wants to go pick out bridesmaid dresses in a few weeks. I believe she is going to just pick the color & then let us pick what we want. I was wondering what would be the best to pick. I’m sure my boobs will be huge & I’m not sure I will drop all the baby weight that fast.
I’m 5 foot 2 34C & 120lbs now. (as of yesterday at the doctor)
Any ideas on bride-maid dress?
I haven’t told the bride yet. I called her the 2 days in a row but she hasn’t answered. I’m still waiting to tell to many people to make sure everything is ok.

Hi all,
My question is for anyone familiar with the Shettles method. We are casually trying to sway for our 2nd baby. We already have a darling boy who I love dearly and just for fun we are casually trying to sway for a girl for our 2nd baby (i.e. we are happy to try the Shettles method for a couple of months to see how we go but please don’t judge our desire to sway as we would be over the moon to give my son a little brother but since we are only planning on 2 children I think the idea of one of each would be lovely too). Our biggest desire is for a happy healthy baby if we are blessed with another one at all.
I believe my boy was conceived using Shettles after we conceived him on/after I ovulated 2 years ago. This time around, I have been using the Baby Hopes website dates again, which said to have sex on MON 12th & TUE 13th for optimal chance of conceiving a girl. It said I would be fertile today (WED 14th) and then ovulate tomorrow (THU 15th). Last night before I went to bed, I tested and my OPK showed a positive for LH surge (when I tested the day before, the result line was slightly fainter than the control line). Today it is definitely POSITIVE.
So I was just wondering what those familiar with Shettles would think this baby might be according to our dates? My thoughts are that the sperm from MON 12th would be most likely contain more girl sperm by the time I ovulate, however since we also had sex (430am) on TUE 13th and I had my LH surge the same night, this could be too close to ovulation therefore a boy is more likely.
Thank you in advance for any help.
I just wondered, what are your thoughts on the likelihood for boy or girl

I got engaged 2 weeks ago, and we’re really excited! However everyone keeps asking when the wedding is, where we’re having it etc, and if I’m honest we haven’t given a thought to details yet!Now I don’t want a long engagement. Were you super organised from day one? Or did you wait a while before getting into the planning?

Iam muslim and for us we don’t have sex b4 marriage. So when i take my bride home what do we do? I don’t wanna sound like dick telling her get on the bed. I want it to be romantic we both have sex by choice.

hi everyone…
i am currently on maternity leave and have 4months left till i go back to work. rani is my first child and for her sake i do not want to go back as i believe it is important for me to give her the best upbringing possible.
i have thought about going back part time and leave my baby at nursery? but i do not know what effect this would have on her as she is very attached to me.
i could start a self employed business from home were i could manage my diary around her and hubby…
the things i have thought about are
baking home made cakes,
painting and selling Arabic calligraphy art
fashion designer in asian wear
mehndi designer
or make up artist for brides..
being a make up artist or mehndi designer would require me to travel, but it wouldn’t be long just in home town while hubby is at home to look after princess.. does anyone have any better suggestions please? has anyone been in a similar situation? please please help me as i am confused as to what i should do:-(
p.s i am good at creative things but have not got any qualifications in these fields.. i would also have to practise all the above or gain a qualification and build a portfolio before i could start up…
i need more suggestions on careers please and
please help me decide what is best. x