I’ve just turned 17 and I do so much around the house, when I’m home alone I’ll clean everything, the kitchen, do all the dishes and put them away, and even sometimes hoover the whole house! I always feed my dog let him out and sometimes walk him, I do my own washing and cooking. I don’t take much money off my parents and I’ve even just got myself a job working 4-12(mon,tues,wed,thurs,fri-evenings) after doing 9.30-3.15 in college every day!! My room is spotless, it is never ever a mess. Everything I have in my room is always organised and tidy. I get really good grades and stuff and my parents just don’t appreciate anything I do, it really bugs me. All they do is shout at me! And it’s really breaking me down, I don’t like being in the house, I spend all my time in my room and when I start work I’ll hardly ever be here, which is a good thing for me. My sister who is now 23 years old just finished uni and moved back home and got a job, she does nothing around the house at all! Nothing!! She leaves all the washing to my mum, she talks back all the time, shes really rude! And not to mention selfish, if I ask her for one small favor, she won’t! She is extremely selfish! But my parents don’t ever yell at her, she doesn’t even pay them rent or give any money to them, they still give her money! I totally feel unappreciated and I really don’t want to be in this house. What do I do?
well long story short my uncle offered to fix my laptop for me and hes had it for 2 and a half months now and wont give it back. he just ignores our calls and facebook.he told us about a month ago it was fixed. i ended up getting his address off another relative so planning to drive to his house on weds but im scared he wont give it back still.
will the police do anything? i have the receipt for it and the owner book with the model numbers.
thanks
I love tim burtons romantic gothic movies but i also like dark humor and cartoonish goth looking carachters like invader zim and stuff, anything like those shows?
I WAS HOPING TO HAVE A COCKTAIL MAN HOWEVER VENUE WILL NOT ALLOW ANY OTHER GOOD IDEA’S
ok so i am 17 she is 16 we met 5 months ago and she was just getting out of a terrrible relationship and she cuts herself because of it me and her have been telling each other we love each other for the past 2 months weve been cuddling making out etc. 3 days ago she waited in the rain just
to cuddle with me for an hour but then yesterday we got into a fight sorta :/ i wanna date but shes not ready and she says shes scared of hurting me because shes the type of girl with low self esteem and very low confidence so she cuddles with guys to make herself feel special but she texted me lastnight and said i love you but im scared to fall in love with you and scared im gonna get hurt she said that those guys dont mean a thing and that she wants me needs me and doesnt want me to leave cause shed be lost without me i feel like me and her can be together and should
be weve both had rough pasts VERY VERY ROUGH and we both understand each other and where like pretty much the same person i love her and i know she loves me but she is having trouble she cuts herself btw so i know shes not playing me cause that wouldnt even make sense so ive kinda been thinking we both have HUGE AMOUNTS of stress and frustration some of the stuff we have been through is terrible an it has alot to do with our parents abusing and hitting and pretty much getting the **** beat out of us so i was thinkg cause we have all this stress and frustration and we both love each other wouldnt it make sense PLEASE IM NOT TRYING TO SOUND BAD OR ANYTHING HERE but wouldnt it make sense just for us to have sex? i mean we love grinding on each other but its not gonna get us off obviously and i know sex is good for realieving stress
and im not trying to just do this to have sex
its not even a issue i dont need it but i think it will honestly help
what i figure would happen is if we do it we would do it once
and it wouldnt be a half hearted thing id be put everything i have
into making her happy and making her feel good as possible then
my needs would come last i think it would really help us
not only get our stress and frustration out but i think
we would become better friends as well and wed be able to think
more clearly with all the stress gone im not a dum *** i know not to
get her pregnant i know condoms i know not nutting in her
im well aware of that stuff but does that seem like a good idea?
there arent any downsides cause no one gets hurt
i stay her bestfriend and we both end up happy so it makes sense doesnt it?
BY THE WAY the abuse isnt as much now as it use to be and where not virgins and i havent talked to her about this yet i planned on talking to her tmmrw about it and i need advice
Me & Him just began dating i’d say for a couple of months and as time went on things were getting better. He was the sweetest, we spent every moment we could on the phone or together. we made plans to have his son, move in together, etc. never had a fight, felt like we knew each forever and chit chatted as if we were best friends. also good sex etc. as perfect as everything seemed i knew there was going to be drama eventually, not b/c of us per say but he has a baby mama. once his mother told her he was involved with someone, she was trying to get him back and was showing jealously. for instance, when i called she said “oh is that ur new b****H” and he said “yup” so obviously she wants him back now.
fast forward, im dead broke, so i asked him for money for gas, etc. he agreed to help. so
the night before last, i went out with my co-workers and he kept calling to check up on me to make sure i was ok and letting me know he didnt forget about me. cool. so when i left the bar i texted him says” babe im staying the night at a friends house, too tipsy to drive” i get a text back saying “baby daddy is sleep sorry its my time now” being the bigger person i didnt curse her out or anything i just said ” ok just letting him know where im at goodnight” she replies ” i’ll give him the msg when we get out the shower in the morning” i said ” thank you goodnight” sooo in the morning i texted “good morning” she says “good morning he’s in the shower we had a long night” im not a morning person so instead of calling her everything i could think of i left it alone. he calls me and when i brought it up he like oh yea i saw what she text u but i didnt say anything b/c that’s what she’s looking for” giving him the benefit of the doubt i let it be.
so at this point i’m literally seconds away from my phone being disconnected so i added that to my list of favors, he agreed, no biggie.
later that day when i spoke to him after work, he tells me i’m on my way out of town to a wedding that i forgot completely about. im like so u forgot about me? he responds “what” at this point i went ape sh*t and haven’t heard from his since. mind you we speak all day.
so has the mother of his child gotten him back? was going ape sh*t not the best idea? lol. or will time tell once things cool off? what do u guys think? cause like i told him, he showing me that he doesn’t care about my needs…could it be a simple oops i forgot or have i just fell for another loser?
Will God approve of us if we get married. They say I have to have a Catholic wedding, but my GF don’t care one way or another. but the qestion is, will God favor us no matter how we get married?
Will God approve of us if we get married. They say I have to have a Catholic wedding, but my GF don’t care one way or another. but the qestion is, will God favor us no matter how we get married?
Ever since developing a bond with my very first dog Lady, a Labrador mix, when I was very young, I’ve realized that nothing feels as good as the bond between myself and an animal. Knowing this, I have loved animals from an early age.
Well, I adopted a Sussex Spaniel mix (Jake) about a month ago. He was living with my fiance, since I was spending the majority of my time there. But, Jake now lives with me, due to my fiances inability to handle a puppy that chews. Since then, I’ve found that my fiance only wants 2 dogs at the most; and his idea of “training” is surrounded with the pack theory idea (i.e. you have to show the dog who is boss). I’m all for clicker training/positive reinforcement training, and took Jake to positive reinforcement training classes. Needless to say, he and I have some very different ideas on how many dogs we want in the future, and the way to train them. So, the wedding has since been pushed back until I get out of college, at least.
Well, Jake helped me to realize things about my fiance that I would not have otherwise learned. I was wondering if any of you have realized anything about yourself and/or others since adopting? Has anything drastic happened? If so, what are you going to do to prevent these drastic things from happening in the future? Any epiphanies?
My fiance and I have been together for three years, he asked me to marry him about
seven months ago. Since then I have not
planned anything, we have no money and
when I voice my concerns he says we will
have the money and not to worry. We get
married in November of this year. I’ve
explained to him that if I am going to plan
anything I would definitely need more time.
Seeing how we cannot come together to plan our union has made me think about how in general we can never ‘plan’ anything together. We can go out and hang out but when it comes to planning anything he expects me to do the planning and even then we never go through with it. I am getting annoyed an feeling like I should call the wedding off, what can I do to get him to understand??
