Hi, I’m 14 tho i look 15 and have just been invited to my cousins wedding. I’ve never been to a wedding before and have no idea as for what to wear. I am 5 ft 1-2 and have hazel-green eyes and wavy frizzy messy hair that is about shoulder length but i am trying to grow way longer. so ideas on styling my hair would also be great! I am not a massive fan of my legs since i fell in the pool this summer and got a massive scar on my left knee. Something to make my stomach look smaller and accentuate my waist would be good.
The wedding is in january, it is going to be at a hotel have no idea what it will be like but from what the couple have said in the past i’m guessing low key, but still slight ly dressy (ie no jeans, t-shirts etc. but not over the top fancy.)
I need English stores that are cheap plus shoe, hair and accessory ideas. Thanks for the help 
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I prefer dresses to pant suits, and i need ideas on colours and jelewry and what type of shoes. I really have no idea other than i cant wear white!!!!!!
My cousin got engaged 6 months ago and since then, she’s been planning for the wedding. I got married 4.5 years ago, so she’d often ask me for advice. I told her 3 important pieces of information: 1. get a wedding planner or a bridal party that will help out. 2. Set a reasonable budget acgcording to your finances, and 3. Quality over quantity. It’s better to have 60 people at your wedding eating gourmet food and drinking fine wine than inviting 160 people with mediocrity. As a wedding gift, I paid for my cousin’s venue, which was held at a vineyard in the valley. She asked me to help pick the wedding colors and flowers. I choose a rich, wine red and cream as her colors. The flowers I choose were white roses. Now, after helping with all that, I thought the wedding would be nice. WELL, the wedding was Sat., and might I add how sad this wedding came out to be. First off, my husband and I could not find a seat to witness the ceremony. Apparently, my cousin did not hire security to check RSVP’s, because people showed up who weren’t even on the list. Nor did my cousin order extra seats just in case extra bodies showed up, like I told her. Second, when it was mealtime, the severs ran out of food due to unexpected heads. The food was cold and rubbery tasting and the drinks served were super ghetto; beer, gin, and wine coolers… like huh? Anyway, the only thing everyone got a piece of was cake, because the pieces were cut smaller than a deck of cards. The DJ kept throwing rap music that involved cursing, in which children were in attendance, including my 3 year old baby. Her guests were very loud and some were jeans and sneakers. I was so embarrassed for her and I was anxious to go home. Well, that night, my cousin’s bestfriend called me to ask me how much did the venue cost me, because she too was interested in getting married there. We then go own to other conversations and she asked if I had enjoyed myself and I said not really. She asked why & I told her the reasons I’ve listed. I then sad the wedding was a hot, ghetto mess. Well, this girl went back and told my cousin. My cousin calls me Sun. afternoon cursing me out, calling me a snobby stuck up *****. I am livid and I wish I had never helped her out. Was I wrong for saying how I truly felt. After all, I left her wedding hungry, feeling cramped and highly annoyed. Was I wrong? Should I apologize?
My cousin got engaged 6 months ago and since then, she’s been planning for the wedding. I got married 4.5 years ago, so she’d often ask me for advice. I told her 3 important pieces of information: 1. get a wedding planner or a bridal party that will help out. 2. Set a reasonable budget acgcording to your finances, and 3. Quality over quantity. It’s better to have 60 people at your wedding eating gourmet food and drinking fine wine than inviting 160 people with mediocrity. As a wedding gift, I paid for my cousin’s venue, which was held at a vineyard in the valley. She asked me to help pick the wedding colors and flowers. I choose a rich, wine red and cream as her colors. The flowers I choose were white roses. Now, after helping with all that, I thought the wedding would be nice. WELL, the wedding was Sat., and might I add how sad this wedding came out to be. First off, my husband and I could not find a seat to witness the ceremony. Apparently, my cousin did not hire security to check RSVP’s, because people showed up who weren’t even on the list. Nor did my cousin order extra seats just in case extra bodies showed up, like I told her. Second, when it was mealtime, the severs ran out of food due to unexpected heads. The food was cold and rubbery tasting and the drinks served were super ghetto; beer, gin, and wine coolers… like huh? Anyway, the only thing everyone got a piece of was cake, because the pieces were cut smaller than a deck of cards. The DJ kept throwing rap music that involved cursing, in which children were in attendance, including my 3 year old baby. Her guests were very loud and some were jeans and sneakers. I was so embarrassed for her and I was anxious to go home. Well, that night, my cousin’s bestfriend called me to ask me how much did the venue cost me, because she too was interested in getting married there. We then go own to other conversations and she asked if I had enjoyed myself and I said not really. She asked why & I told her the reasons I’ve listed. I then sad the wedding was a hot, ghetto mess. Well, this girl went back and told my cousin. My cousin calls me Sun. afternoon cursing me out, calling me a snobby stuck up *****. I am livid and I wish I had never helped her out. Was I wrong for saying how I truly felt. After all, I left her wedding hungry, feeling cramped and highly annoyed. Was I wrong? Should I apologize?
My cousin got engaged 6 months ago and since then, she’s been planning for the wedding. I got married 4.5 years ago, so she’d often ask me for advice. I told her 3 important pieces of information: 1. get a wedding planner or a bridal party that will help out. 2. Set a reasonable budget acgcording to your finances, and 3. Quality over quantity. It’s better to have 60 people at your wedding eating gourmet food and drinking fine wine than inviting 160 people with mediocrity. As a wedding gift, I paid for my cousin’s venue, which was held at a vineyard in the valley. She asked me to help pick the wedding colors and flowers. I choose a rich, wine red and cream as her colors. The flowers I choose were white roses. Now, after helping with all that, I thought the wedding would be nice. WELL, the wedding was Sat., and might I add how sad this wedding came out to be. First off, my husband and I could not find a seat to witness the ceremony. Apparently, my cousin did not hire security to check RSVP’s, because people showed up who weren’t even on the list. Nor did my cousin order extra seats just in case extra bodies showed up, like I told her. Second, when it was mealtime, the severs ran out of food due to unexpected heads. The food was cold and rubbery tasting and the drinks served were super ghetto; beer, gin, and wine coolers… like huh? Anyway, the only thing everyone got a piece of was cake, because the pieces were cut smaller than a deck of cards. The DJ kept throwing rap music that involved cursing, in which children were in attendance, including my 3 year old baby. Her guests were very loud and some were jeans and sneakers. I was so embarrassed for her and I was anxious to go home. Well, that night, my cousin’s bestfriend called me to ask me how much did the venue cost me, because she too was interested in getting married there. We then go own to other conversations and she asked if I had enjoyed myself and I said not really. She asked why & I told her the reasons I’ve listed. I then sad the wedding was a hot, ghetto mess. Well, this girl went back and told my cousin. My cousin calls me Sun. afternoon cursing me out, calling me a snobby stuck up *****. I am livid and I wish I had never helped her out. Was I wrong for saying how I truly felt. After all, I left her wedding hungry, feeling cramped and highly annoyed. Was I wrong? Should I apologize?
So i need some advice on this family issue…
Ok so i have this problem.. My birthday is on July 02 (Turning 22) My sister’s birthday is on June 22 (Turning 21) We want to go to las Vegas with our husbands for the long weekend to celebrate our birthdays……. My sister and I made those plans a while back… She booked her hotel room already in las vegas.. My husband and I haven’t booked it yet because we wanted to get some money first..
Well the problem is that my cousin’s wedding is on July 02. that same weekend.. I don’t know what to do.. Should i go to las Vegas with my sister to celebrate our birthday’s or stay here to go to my cousin’s wedding?
Here’s the reason why my sister didn’t feel bad about not going to my cousin’s wedding… She has missed all of our important celebrations too like, My sister’s baby shower, My daughter’s Baptism and she is never in our family parties… And her excuse is always “I’m sorry i went to a concert” she always says that she had the tickets before even knowing the date of our events… So the truth is she never really cares about our important days either…
So should i go with my sister or stay for the wedding? I feel bad about not going to the wedding but its true she never cares about us either..
what would you do? I need to book the hotel room Today already if i decide to go to Vegas before the prices go higher..
My mom passed away when I was 7. My Aunt which is his grandmother raised me mostly so I grew up with him and her other grandchildren. Next week hes getting married, cousins from Georgia, San Francisco and Mexico are invited. Non-Family members of his church were invited. I live in the same town and not invited. We all keep contact through Facebook, my.contact info is listed with phone number, still no invitation.The day after the wedding me and the rest of the cousins are getting together to Magic Mountain. Hes heard of my planned get together at Magic Mountain, still no invite. My Aunt his Grandma clearly upset. What did I do? I dont even see him just through Facebook. Facebooks just a lame excuse to Flake, starting to hate it.
How Do I Deal With My Mean Cousins?
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I’ve made some small mistakes in the past with at least a few of my cousins being there. They gossip to each other about everything and everyone including me. For example, I was taking to one of my cousins about a flooding in TN. She got mad about what I said so she went ahead and told all mine and her other cousins. Sometimes they will use that against me. I feel like as if they don’t accept me. Sometime they do ignore me. For example, I helped out with planning out one of my cousin’s wedding, her sister thanked everyone who helped out, she didn’t even acknowledge me or thank me. On top of that I feel like as if they don’t even trust me. I asked one of my cousins if I can hold our cousin’s baby and she’s like “you better not drop her.” It’s like they judge me based on the mistakes that I have made. They think that I am immature, dumb, and irresponsible. I had a hmwk assignment that involved all of my cousins to give their opinion about me and none of them gave me damn answer. They all like ignored me. I told this to my school psychologist, dean, and counselor. One of the things they suggested was to block all of them off from facebook. Which I did. I have not spoken to my cousins for about 4 months now. What should I do?
I am a part of a 3 person team. We are all Black females ranging from 25-35 years old. We are trying to start a company called “The Wedding Chapel”. We have incorporated as an LLC.
Here’s our concept:
“The Wedding Chapel” will be a place where a couple can have an elegant wedding without breaking the bank. We will offer the complete wedding. Meaning that everything needed to get married will be provided by “The Wedding Chapel” all the couple has to do is find their outfits and show up. Somewhat like a chapel in Vegas, but with much more class.
There are so many different people involved in making a wedding happen. i.e. photographer, cake decorator, wedding planner, caterer, limousine company, florist and so on. If one of those people does not do as they should the wedding could be a disaster. In addition to that there is a tremendous amount of planning and coordinating involved. At “The Wedding Chapel” everything is controlled by us. There is no ball to drop.
Many times prices are so inflated that the couple who is so excited about their big day, has to scale back. There is no good reason for the drastically inflated prices. So we are providing and answer to that.
Our Motto is: “Your wedding doesn’t have to be limited by what’s in your wallet.”
Our Mission Statement is:
To completely provide an elegant wedding ceremony and wedding reception experience at an affordable price.
Our Goal is to relieve the pressures of wedding planning and to provide and answer to financial limitations.
The Challenge is:
To always go above and beyond the customers expectations. To always give quality service regardless of the client or compensation.
