Wedding Planning Tips

Working with the other bridesmaids in my sister’s wedding to plan a sort of flash mob at the reception… any ideas for good songs?

I need a song that would be good for my fiance and my soon to be sister in law. What is a good idea of songs so then I can tell her. I have one for my father/daughter dance and don’t want to leave him out of it.

I’ve been waffling between dance and business for years now. I truly love to dance, but I also want to be self-employed and hold a stable job. I would be happy dancing and I really want to perform, but if I get hurt then I would be at a loss for a job. Also, I’m concerned that making dance a career might take the fun out of it. I’ve wanted to be a wedding and event planner for a long time and that way I can be my own boss and I’ve already been accepted to WP Carey which is a really prestigious school. Is there some way I can go to school for business and still dance onstage at my age (19)?
I have no idea what to do. I’m being so indecisive.

so i need father daughter dance ideas for a wedding i dont have the best relationship with my dad but i still love him despite all his faults and mistakes he has made but anyways i need song ideas that describe our relationship pls help!

Here is the dress: http://store.delias.com/item.do?itemID=5…
Here Is the hair style:http://www.zimbio.com/Wedding+Updo/artic…
Here are the shoes :http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/shoes…
Jewelry : http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/nordstrom-me…
Makeup : Sparkley smokey eyes
Is That ok? xxxxxxx
BTW Its a pretty Dressy Dance

Our wedding went great, after a long hour of taking photos we finally entered the reception hall. We danced to our first song which i knew he was nervous about. We did great according to everyone else. Eventually everyone started to let loose and started dancing. We danced to one more slow song that we didn’t even finish, so i started dancing with friends. A little later on we started to put our slideshow together and i got a little frustrated that it wasn’t working. I noticed my mother-in-law started mouthing to my husband to go dance with me. So he got up and took me by the hand and we walked to the dance floor but when the DJ changed it to a more up beat song i grabbed his hands and just started to move and he pulled away as if he was terrified. I know he’s shy sometimes but I figured he would have at least tried to dance with me. He’s always goofy when were together; he’ll dance all funny and sing songs with me. But during the reception i danced with friends and my sister, we all danced in a big group. I noticed people asking me where he was and he was no where in the room but at random times just standing or walking around. Every time I tried to get him to dance with me he would just say now. Towards the end I didn’t see him at all. When I did see him people were going up to him trying to get him to dance with me, it got so bad that he had to wrestle one of his friends off him. What had upset me the most is that he came up to me saying he’s embarrassed to dance and he wanted to go hide from everyone. I didn’t know why he wouldn’t just try to dance with me to those songs we goof off to when were together. I felt so alone. When the reception was over I gathered up my things and started to walk to our room, I saw him at the bar with some people but I just kept walking. He followed me like a couple steps, called my name and I told him I was going to go get cleaned up. He didn’t say anything so I assumed he went back to the bar. I got cleaned up and just sat around waiting for him. Eventually he came back asking me to go out with him his brother and his brothers girlfriend. I told him how I felt and that I didn’t want to go out but he kept insisting so I went. When we came back we got into an argument about the whole dancing thing, his reason was basically that dancing is not his thing and he’s embarrassed on what other people think of him dancing. I got mad because he’s danced before and I felt like everyone else’s thoughts were put before mine. This became a big deal because this was supposed to be a special day and I felt alone with him gone most of the time from him “hiding”. The discussion ended with me telling him that I’m upset and I’m going to be upset for a while because this was something special and that he should leave it alone because I didn’t think there was anything he could do at the time.
Later on we went on our honeymoon and we were having a great time, but the thought of everything that had happened was still on my mind. I didn’t let it bother me, but we had gone to a dinner show and there was a lot of dancing and acting and singing. We were playing pool in our cabin later that night having nice romantic moments. I thought it’d be different if I asked him for a favor. He said anything. I asked him if sometime when we get back home we could go dancing together (we’ve talked about doing this before the wedding a while ago, so I didn’t see the big deal). He paused for a while and couldn’t give me a straight answer. He kept saying excuses that seemed to be going towards a no, like he’d want to look up dancing and get into it and it would just have to be me and him because he doesn’t want to be embarrassed in front of people he knew. I dropped the subject then but I got upset when we went to bed. I told him I knew he wasn’t going to do it, he argued against it and kept asking me why I was upset. I told him again and that I didn’t want to talk about it anymore because the conversation goes no where. It’s not like I want to drop the whole topic, I just wished he would try for me. I would have been so happy if he had just tried to dance with me. But he didn’t even bother. And what makes me upset the most is that in the morning he’ll act as if nothing ever happened. I don’t know what to do or how to deal with this. We’ve always done everything for each other or at least tried it. I suck it up all the time and go to car shows with him and his friends when I know I’m uncomfortable, I don’t say no to him when I know its something he really wants to do. I try it for him and we go from there. How do I deal with this? It was such an important day and I felt alone.

Our wedding went great, after a long hour of taking photos we finally entered the reception hall. We danced to our first song which i knew he was nervous about. We did great according to everyone else. Eventually everyone started to let loose and started dancing. We danced to one more slow song that we didn’t even finish, so i started dancing with friends. A little later on we started to put our slideshow together and i got a little frustrated that it wasn’t working. I noticed my mother-in-law started mouthing to my husband to go dance with me. So he got up and took me by the hand and we walked to the dance floor but when the DJ changed it to a more up beat song i grabbed his hands and just started to move and he pulled away as if he was terrified. I know he’s shy sometimes but I figured he would have at least tried to dance with me. He’s always goofy when were together; he’ll dance all funny and sing songs with me. But during the reception i danced with friends and my sister, we all danced in a big group. I noticed people asking me where he was and he was no where in the room but at random times just standing or walking around. Every time I tried to get him to dance with me he would just say now. Towards the end I didn’t see him at all. When I did see him people were going up to him trying to get him to dance with me, it got so bad that he had to wrestle one of his friends off him. What had upset me the most is that he came up to me saying he’s embarrassed to dance and he wanted to go hide from everyone. I didn’t know why he wouldn’t just try to dance with me to those songs we goof off to when were together. I felt so alone. When the reception was over I gathered up my things and started to walk to our room, I saw him at the bar with some people but I just kept walking. He followed me like a couple steps, called my name and I told him I was going to go get cleaned up. He didn’t say anything so I assumed he went back to the bar. I got cleaned up and just sat around waiting for him. Eventually he came back asking me to go out with him his brother and his brothers girlfriend. I told him how I felt and that I didn’t want to go out but he kept insisting so I went. When we came back we got into an argument about the whole dancing thing, his reason was basically that dancing is not his thing and he’s embarrassed on what other people think of him dancing. I got mad because he’s danced before and I felt like everyone else’s thoughts were put before mine. This became a big deal because this was supposed to be a special day and I felt alone with him gone most of the time from him “hiding”. The discussion ended with me telling him that I’m upset and I’m going to be upset for a while because this was something special and that he should leave it alone because I didn’t think there was anything he could do at the time.
Later on we went on our honeymoon and we were having a great time, but the thought of everything that had happened was still on my mind. I didn’t let it bother me, but we had gone to a dinner show and there was a lot of dancing and acting and singing. We were playing pool in our cabin later that night having nice romantic moments. I thought it’d be different if I asked him for a favor. He said anything. I asked him if sometime when we get back home we could go dancing together (we’ve talked about doing this before the wedding a while ago, so I didn’t see the big deal). He paused for a while and couldn’t give me a straight answer. He kept saying excuses that seemed to be going towards a no, like he’d want to look up dancing and get into it and it would just have to be me and him because he doesn’t want to be embarrassed in front of people he knew. I dropped the subject then but I got upset when we went to bed. I told him I knew he wasn’t going to do it, he argued against it and kept asking me why I was upset. I told him again and that I didn’t want to talk about it anymore because the conversation goes no where. It’s not like I want to drop the whole topic, I just wished he would try for me. I would have been so happy if he had just tried to dance with me. But he didn’t even bother. And what makes me upset the most is that in the morning he’ll act as if nothing ever happened. I don’t know what to do or how to deal with this. We’ve always done everything for each other or at least tried it. I suck it up all the time and go to car shows with him and his friends when I know I’m uncomfortable, I don’t say no to him when I know its something he really wants to do. I try it for him and we go from there. How do I deal with this? It was such an important day and I felt alone.

Our wedding went great, after a long hour of taking photos we finally entered the reception hall. We danced to our first song which i knew he was nervous about. We did great according to everyone else. Eventually everyone started to let loose and started dancing. We danced to one more slow song that we didn’t even finish, so i started dancing with friends. A little later on we started to put our slideshow together and i got a little frustrated that it wasn’t working. I noticed my mother-in-law started mouthing to my husband to go dance with me. So he got up and took me by the hand and we walked to the dance floor but when the DJ changed it to a more up beat song i grabbed his hands and just started to move and he pulled away as if he was terrified. I know he’s shy sometimes but I figured he would have at least tried to dance with me. He’s always goofy when were together; he’ll dance all funny and sing songs with me. But during the reception i danced with friends and my sister, we all danced in a big group. I noticed people asking me where he was and he was no where in the room but at random times just standing or walking around. Every time I tried to get him to dance with me he would just say now. Towards the end I didn’t see him at all. When I did see him people were going up to him trying to get him to dance with me, it got so bad that he had to wrestle one of his friends off him. What had upset me the most is that he came up to me saying he’s embarrassed to dance and he wanted to go hide from everyone. I didn’t know why he wouldn’t just try to dance with me to those songs we goof off to when were together. I felt so alone. When the reception was over I gathered up my things and started to walk to our room, I saw him at the bar with some people but I just kept walking. He followed me like a couple steps, called my name and I told him I was going to go get cleaned up. He didn’t say anything so I assumed he went back to the bar. I got cleaned up and just sat around waiting for him. Eventually he came back asking me to go out with him his brother and his brothers girlfriend. I told him how I felt and that I didn’t want to go out but he kept insisting so I went. When we came back we got into an argument about the whole dancing thing, his reason was basically that dancing is not his thing and he’s embarrassed on what other people think of him dancing. I got mad because he’s danced before and I felt like everyone else’s thoughts were put before mine. This became a big deal because this was supposed to be a special day and I felt alone with him gone most of the time from him “hiding”. The discussion ended with me telling him that I’m upset and I’m going to be upset for a while because this was something special and that he should leave it alone because I didn’t think there was anything he could do at the time.
Later on we went on our honeymoon and we were having a great time, but the thought of everything that had happened was still on my mind. I didn’t let it bother me, but we had gone to a dinner show and there was a lot of dancing and acting and singing. We were playing pool in our cabin later that night having nice romantic moments. I thought it’d be different if I asked him for a favor. He said anything. I asked him if sometime when we get back home we could go dancing together (we’ve talked about doing this before the wedding a while ago, so I didn’t see the big deal). He paused for a while and couldn’t give me a straight answer. He kept saying excuses that seemed to be going towards a no, like he’d want to look up dancing and get into it and it would just have to be me and him because he doesn’t want to be embarrassed in front of people he knew. I dropped the subject then but I got upset when we went to bed. I told him I knew he wasn’t going to do it, he argued against it and kept asking me why I was upset. I told him again and that I didn’t want to talk about it anymore because the conversation goes no where. It’s not like I want to drop the whole topic, I just wished he would try for me. I would have been so happy if he had just tried to dance with me. But he didn’t even bother. And what makes me upset the most is that in the morning he’ll act as if nothing ever happened. I don’t know what to do or how to deal with this. We’ve always done everything for each other or at least tried it. I suck it up all the time and go to car shows with him and his friends when I know I’m uncomfortable, I don’t say no to him when I know its something he really wants to do. I try it for him and we go from there. How do I deal with this? It was such an important day and I felt alone.

Faith Hill – There You’ll Be (Lyrics)
When I think back
On these times
And the dreams
We left behind
I’ll be glad ‘cause
I was blessed to get
To have you in my life
When I look back
On these days
I’ll look and see your face
You were right there for me
In my dreams
I’ll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There always be a place
For you for all my life
I’ll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
Well you showed me
How it feels
To feel the sky
Within my reach
And I always
Will remember all
The strength you
Gave to me
Your love made me
Make it through
Oh, I owe so much to you
You were right there for me
In my dreams
I’ll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There always be a place
For you for all my life
I’ll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
‘Cause I always saw in you
My light, my strength
And I want to thank you
Now for all the ways
You were right there for me
You were right there for me
For always
In my dreams
I’ll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There always be a place
For you for all my life
I’ll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
There you’ll be
I’m not a country music fan but i like the lyrics and my parents listen to country and always have.
Feedback?

I want a song we both like. He’s more into hip/hop or rap I’ll listen to anything. So pretty much we want something appropriate for our first dance as a married couple but something he’ll enjoy. Any ideas?