Though I do not usually use wine but been the bride I think its necessary for me to look good
I have my relatives marriage nearby -
The girl is well educated., in fact studied more than boy.
The boy has studied one step less., but seem to have more years of domain exposure – -
At this juncture., the girl donot have money to support for marriage.
while the boy is well off with the money he was earning…
The girl admitted her incapacity or family incapacity during contribution of money in regards to marriage-
The boy seem okai and went forward to arranging everything i suppose -
The boy’s mother thinks there has to be some dowry that has to come from bride’s mother -
as there is some property on her name…, she want yearly income from that it seems.
Why mother of boy is meddling in the middle.., when boy even went ahead to bring -up whole marraige scenario on his own – -
I am not sure if she knows the fact that groom has spent all money.., but she dont seem to care anyway..,
but her focus is on the property of bride’s mother .. -
how could she be stifled if at all possible -
While bride’s mother father try to ignore her misadventures most of the times -
So this has been an ongoing situation with hubby and his parents. They have never been close. It most recently got worse when his brother asked for hubby to co-sign on a $100k loan and hubby said no. His brother flipped out and caused more drama between hubby and him. We have his brother and brother’s wife numbers blocked so they can’t contact either one of us. His brother is still talking bad about hubby for not co-signing on a $100k loan for him. Hubby’s mom called him regarding the loan whining about how they will lose their house and all this. We both told her that it is not our fault his brother is in this mess and we are not helping. We ended up having a huge family meeting and his mom is basically blaming us and so is his brother. His mom is mad that we didn’t spend more time with them at our wedding and all this other petty bullsh**. Hubby’s parents have yet to call him after the whole “family meeting”. It’s been 3 months now. We talk to hubby’s grandma all the time. Apparently hubby’s mom is going around telling everyone she is going to be a grandma, but she hasn’t even called to see how things are going. She still has not apologized for what she called me. I have mentioned to hubby before that maybe we should be the bigger person and just call but then he reminds me that even if we do call, it won’t change anything. They will still favor his brother over him. They call his brother all the time.
We talked about it last night again and the subject of what we will do when we have the baby. We will call my family, his grandma and aunts and uncles. We will not be calling his parents. We know his grandma will tell his mom though. We just do not want them at the hospital. Our feeling is that they can’t put forth an effort to have a relationship with hubby then why would we subject our child to that same treatment. We are thinking of putting hubby’s parents and brother and his wife’s names on a list with the labor and delivery front desk that they are not allowed in. We just don’t want the drama. His mom will act like nothing ever happened. It will be an awkward and tense situation if any of them come. So, we just prefer they didn’t. The only reason why she would even want to come to the hospital when our baby is born is to act like she did nothing wrong and have people fall all over her. She wants to be center of attention. She wants people to think she is so nice and holier than thou when she is the most 2-faced manipulative person I have ever met.
What do we do if they do show up at the hospital or at the house? We sound like awful people keeping grandparents away from their grandchild but they have no interest in knowing how things are going or how we are.
Sorry, I just need to vent. I feel awful for hubby. The crap between him and his parents has been like this for as long as I have known him. Even his grandpa used to tell hubby’s mom that she is no mother.
Is it ok to make the guest use the wine glass during toasting and then let them take it home as a souvenir/ wedding favor…a memory of taking part in our wedding wine toast?
I intend to put ribbon and thank you note tie on wine glass to become our wedding favor…than came up the idea of using it for the guest for wine toasting..is it ok? because i worry after they sip on it, they would not want to take it home…not clean to take home? what do you think
I was reading a book on how immediate family members and ushers get good seats and are in photos and things like that, but I’ll be the date of bride’s brother/usher do I get ignored? Do I not sit w/ him during the ceremony and reception cause I’m not a family member? I don’t know anyone else at the wedding but him.
I’ve been trying to think of what it’s called, but I have no idea. At weddings and such, the…stand with the microphone. It’s probably a stupid question, but I need to know!! Someone please help my dysfunctional brain!!
Brides fam on left, groom on right.
Brides fam on left, groom on right.
Muslim protesters say they will burn pictures of the Royal couple along the route of the royal wedding. Will our government allow this?http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-…
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