On the 9th of this month my boyfriend and I, after having intercourse, discovered semen coming out the back of the condom. We decided to get Plan B the next morning, because it was 12 at night. So that morning we had unprotected sex, cause we thought “why not?” and left his place, only to forget and go to a wedding for the whole day. The next morning we get up, go to church and after for get the Plan B.
When I took it I got the two pill kind, and I got this once before from my doctor. Normally you take one pill then the other 12 hours later, but my doctor told me to just take both at once and I should be fine. Now when i did this before it worked as it should have, I got my period with in 2-3 days after taking it. This time however I did not start at all! It has now been 11 days and no period. I should start my normal cycled period in the next few days, but I have also had no sign of that starting.
I thought maybe the Pill didn’t work because I was already pregnant, we had unprotected sex after my last cycle, so the 29th of Aug, The text came back negative, so I was not pregnant before.
But the Plan B Pill never kicked in and my boyfriend and had unprotected sex from September 9th-14th once to twice a day.
I’m not sure what to do, or even if I should be worried. My boyfriend thinks we shouldn’t I’m 85% sure that I am. I have had an increase in eating and sleeping and my breast are very tender.
How long should I wait to test again? Or should I even be worried?
I’m married but I never did that.
My fiance and I had somewhat of a quick engagement. He proposed June 3rd and the wedding is July 30. I had to rearrange some people and things to fit people’s schedules as far as who can come to the wedding and who can’t. Traditionally, if the bride has a sister, then her or the bride’s best friend should be the maid of honor. Well my sister’s job denied her vacation time because she just got a job at a Social Security Administration building and is still in what i guess they call a “probationary period’. She is really bummed out that she can’t come to be in the wedding. I feel horrible to REPLACE her because she is my best friend, and I really don’t want to replace her. My fiance’s groom’s party has 3, and I don’t want it to look awkward to have 2 on one side and 3 on the other, I also do not have very many friends (by choice), and the 2 female friends that I do have are already my bridesmaids.
After talking to my sister, we decided to have my younger cousin be a maid of honor, and sort of “stand-in” for her (which my cousin was totally cool with and excited about). We would still put my sister’s name in the program under “maid of honor” with an astrick in the corner to indicate she could not attend, but also put my cousin’s name under the same headline so she can be recognized as well. I got negative feedback from my fiance about it, but I want to represent my big sister as well as my younger cousin who COULD be there. Weddings don’t have to be 100% traditional. Am I wrong for wanting to do that???? Feedback is greatly appreciated.
he has a girlfriend when things happen between us.he was just buying time to quit his girl. he told me that whatever my plan is for the baby, he will support me. we even planned having a secret marriage which didn’t come to reality because we still need our parents consent. after a month, things suddenly changed. we separated. he wanted me to get an abortion which i do not want. he told me that he doesn’t not love me anymore and will never ever love me. i told him i’m gonna continue with my pregnancy. we discussed about the situation with his parents and my parents and it has been decided that we’ll get married, but he was really forced by my parents to marry me by threatening him with a gun. the wedding date has been set already but no preparations yet. he never asked about the baby. i found out that he got his girlfriend pregnant and they had an abortion. their baby was 6 months by then. that was also the time i got pregnant. the situation is so complicated. he broke up with his girl 2 months after the abortion. this must be the reason why he acted so stupid and so unmanly about our situation. what shall i do? should i marry him? my father would act hysterically if the wedding will not take place. that’s the main problem now. i don’t love him anymore. i don’t even wanna see him. i was just so afraid that my father might kill him if we don’t get married. i’m so ashamed of people telling me that the guy does not want to marry me and that we were just forcing him. i don’t actually believe that he does not love me anymore.
My fiancee and I have been back and forth debating on if we should have a acutal wedding or just do it private somewhere like on the beach with only a pastor or even a courthouse. He is going into the army so I feel like i am having to rush everything we are planning and I am stressed out to the max between work, school, and planning. It also feels like we are planning this wedding for everyone but us… We have to not do some stuff due to his families beliefs (such as dancing and alcohol) and also are not having a “dream wedding” due to not having much money. I just feel like it is not worth all this trouble for one day that is not even a “dream wedding” and is just stressful planning.. I feel like I am more sad about planning a wedding then happy. Does everyone feel this way when planning a wedding where they just don’t wanna have one and do it private? Or should I consider just having a pastor do it somewhere private with me and my fiancee. Or as i said just do it in a courthouse? Please give me your opinions and no mean comments.
Would it matter to a guy if his bride wasn’t a virgin even if he was the one who took her virginity before marriage? I was just curious about this. Though I don’t think most guys are this petty, I’ve heard some guys only want to marry a girl who’s a virgin. I’ve also heard this hurtful joke on FML.com that talks about this guy pressuring his virgin girlfriend into having sex with him when their still just dating, and when she finally gives in because she loves him and wants to marry him, he turns around and tells her he no longer wishes to marry her because she is no longer “chaste” and “pure,” even though he was the one who both pressured her then took her virginity. I’ve also heard that a woman who is getting married and is no longer a virgin would be a joke in her white wedding gown since the white dress is supposed to be a symbol of her purity. Do guys care about this with their future brides and would they be that crazy to not feel quite the same about their gf / fiancee, even though they might’ve been the one that took her virginity before they got married?
Would it matter to a guy if his bride wasn’t a virgin even if he was the one who took her virginity before marriage? I was just curious about this. Though I don’t think most guys are this petty, I’ve heard some guys only want to marry a girl who’s a virgin. I’ve also heard this hurtful joke on FML.com that talks about this guy pressuring his virgin girlfriend into having sex with him when their still just dating, and when she finally gives in because she loves him and wants to marry him, he turns around and tells her he no longer wishes to marry her because she is no longer “chaste” and “pure,” even though he was the one who both pressured her then took her virginity. I’ve also heard that a woman who is getting married and is no longer a virgin would be a joke in her white wedding gown since the white dress is supposed to be a symbol of her purity. Do guys care about this with their future brides and would they be that crazy to not feel quite the same about their gf / fiancee, even though they might’ve been the one that took her virginity before they got married?
If I am giving something like wine stoppers do I give one to each house hold or each person? I really want to leave them at each guests seat but will it be wierd not having one at every chair.
My fiance’s family wants us to get married asap and is making a huge deal about planning our wedding in 2 months. Since i am the bride, my family is paying for the reception, but won’t be financially ready to pay for it in 2 months. we have been together for 4 years, and i’m not pregnant either. why are they acting like this?????
A year ago I got married to my husband and it was the most perfect day, all our guests were raving about it and still talking about it now! My friend was engaged at the time and was planning to get married abroad. The week after our wedding she booked the same venue for a year later. At this point I was flattered and excited for her as I thought she could use her own colours and ideas and it would be totally different.
As time went on she kept copying all the same things from my wedding – photographers, menu, chair covers, flowers, favour bags, etc. This was annoying but I got over it. She did mention using same colour at one point but I told her point blank that she had to choose a different colour (harsh but necessary!). I knew she got her wedding dress from same shop and it was same designer but she described it in a totally different way to my dress. Then on the day it was weird because all the venue people and photographers remembered our wedding but I was getting through it and excited for my friend. Then she walked down the aisle in the corset version of my wedding dress – I nearly had a heart attack. To top it off they read the same vows even though it was different registrar (in UK each registrar has own personal vows).
She wasnt making eye contact with me directly after so I knew she knew she had done wrong and after the ceremony the venue people and photographers came to see if I was alright cos they knew it was the same. I mentioned it to her briefly on the night (when her sister asked for my help to put the train up as she couldnt do it!!) and all our friends know she copied ours but I just cant seem to get over it. It was me and my friends that got the dance floor going as I wanted her to have a great night – I must emphasise I didnt play drama queen at her wedding!
I am trying to be flattered and happy for my friend but everytime I see photos it makes me feel sick. It was quite a unique dress I have not seen anyone I know with anything like it and it was a huge talking point on my wedding day – my husband cried when he saw me and he has never cried in the 7 years we’ve been together! I think that’s why I am having trouble coping with it.
