She said he has never said anything like this before and is usually really nice, and doesn’t want to break up with him just before their wedding because of a stupid fight.
Here’s what happened.
Out of no where, he said:
Him: “You should quit your job after marriage.”
Her: “Why!?”
Him: “Because the man is the one with the job in relationships. It’s just more logical.”
Her: “What? You have a small part time job at our mall! I just got promoted, and I get paid way more than you!”
Him: “Well we need some one to clean the house while the other is at work.
Her: “Why can’t y-”
Him: “Because WOMEN clean. It’s just weird to be a house-husband.”
At this point she was incredibly offended that he thought she should quit her high-paying job to clean a house because she was a woman.
Her: “Well, I’m not quitting, and if you can’t deal with that right now then I am leaving and we can discuss this later.”
Him: “I CAN’T be the cleaner of the house. I don’t know how!”
Her: “Oh, and because I’m a woman you expect me to know how?”
Him: “Well, yeah.”
Her: “For your information I lack knowledge in the subject of cleaning. I’m going right now. We will discuss this later, but I’m not quitting my job.”
Then she left to work while he silently ate his breakfast.
She called me after work and asked if she could come over to talk with me about it before she went home, and I didn’t really know what she should do, so I am asking you. YA!, What should she do? She’s calmed down a little after the fight but is still pretty peeved he would say something so sexist. I am completely aware I will most likely get some stupid troll answers on this question about how the guy was right and women should stay in the kitchen, etc. but I will just ignore you if you do. My cousin doesn’t see why the woman can’t be the provider of the family for once, and that he would suddenly suppose she would quit her better-paying full-time job just to be a house wife because it’s apparently unethical for a thriving family to live otherwise. What should she do? She’s not going to ignore him about it but she’s really not in the mood for more arguing without an idea of what she should say. All she knows is it’s a pretty sexist idea the woman can’t provide for the family, her job pays more, it’s a stupid idea for her to quit, and that’s all she really has to say in the argument. How should she talk with him about it? (She is preparing herself for an apology or more arguing, so also how should she deal with an apology if he does say sorry?)
My ex has been engaged to his fiancee for over a year and they plan on getting married in May. She and my ex have me blocked on fb because they are extremely immature and don’t want me to see what they are doing, or maybe it is for my own good. Anyway, when my ex and i were together, we were friends with benefits for quite some time, but he always was with his fiancee, who was his steady girlfriend at the time. I fell in love with him, and in the beginning he loved me. I know what you’re all thinking, yeah i used to be a slut and the homewrecker…but i’ve grown up, dumped him and moved on.
He broke my heart when i had to find out from someone else that he was planning on proposing to her, he had lied to me for almost 2 years that he would leave her, or if they happened to break up, that he would be with me. I waited and waited for him. Finally 2 years ago, after i found out that he was going to propose, I moved and tried to end things, I explained to him the distance was too great and even if I wanted to, I wouldn’t try to be with him. He asserted that we would always be good friends. The past 2 years we hardly ever talk, like maybe text once every couple of months. Every time we do though, things get sort of dirty, he wants pics or says he’s hard…it upsets me and i try to change the subject although i secretly want to return the favor…its tough. We always had amazing phone sex and it was great when we were together.
I have gotten over him, but part of me is still resentful and angry towards him and his fiancee, his fiancee and i used to be friends back before they were even together. We don’t talk now, obviously. I saw a status on fb about her having to get her wedding dressed fitted and that her soon to be hubby shouldn’t peek…immediately i felt sick to my stomach. Anyone else feel like that when dealing with an ex and his/her new future spouse? How do I get over it? I’m in a 12 step program, which would tell me to detach and let it go, but its hard. Thanks, sorry this is long.
I got married in India under hindu rituals and I brought my wife on fiancee visa and got court marriage in USA. Almost 2 years of our wedding, things are not working out. Can I get divorce in USA, while my wife is planning to go to India? Do I need to get divorce in India also? How can I get divorce if she will be in India? Please advice. Thanks.
he even not sends his support..i was desperate now because of him i cant go back to my work before ..many of my friends praying our wedding will cancel so i stop contacting my friends because they are giving bad advince…he got problems his work and he needs to move house after saying that to me he stop calling for 3 weeks my family support me they told me if he really wants to marry me he will do everything for our wedding..but i was hurt i know he had problems but i can understand it..we survive even he stop sending his support ..we manage to borrow money to survive..i wanted to torn his legal capacity i had his document i was angry with him but i still waiting if after 2 weeks he really doesnt call or arrived maybe that time i will give up..i plan to work abroad to forget him i dont want to work again because i cant endure all the insult and teasing of my friends..i was down now..but i still hope with my family on my side and i know that god is there..i never cheated him nor talk other men..i just hope his problem will finish ..he had many responsibility he had son 5 years old and he was divorce he still supporting his ex wife so maybe he cant marry me because of financially difficulties ..but i just hope his business will be ok so that he can call me ….i miss him and hope everything will be ok..i dont know what to do now..i was sad
My fiancee was previously married about 8 years ago (divorced 2.5 years ago). Now that our wedding is being planned I’m wondering what to do about gifts. We have been living together for the past year and we certainly don’t NEED anything and I feel like if you have a previous marriage asking for gifts the second time would be tacky.
But this is my first marriage and I know that my family will want to buy me gifts. What’s the protocol here? Do we make a registry or not?
So my wife and i went Wedding dress and bridesmaid dress shopping as well as tux shopping. I love my fiancee to death and i have gone with her everywhere and gone with her to the planner every time but once and that was because i was working. Well when we got into the car and headed home she went off on me and started crying and told me that if i really didn’t want to go i should of just said so and didn’t have to fake it and i am not faking anything i am genuinely interested in our wedding and i am just so inlove with her! I don’t understand why she is being like this unless her sisters have said something! What should i do? Why is she being like this? Advice?
To start, the relationship between my mother and I is terrible. We have a lot of issues and it’s pretty much a situation you have to live in to understand it (just to give you an idea when I was 11, she put a knife to my throat, after I ran from her around the house jumping over stuff, crying, begging her to stop). I live with my dad now and everything is fine here I wish I would’ve done it years ago. I just turned 18 a few months ago and I enlisted in the Marines a last year (parental consent to enlist) and I’m supposed to be leaving in a few weeks to bootcamp. Well I just got engaged last week and we want to have the marriage next summer. However because my fiancee has witnessed some of the messed up things my mom does from over the phone… so she has issues with her, like she REALLY doesn’t like my mom. She’s never met her though. And my mom doesn’t even now I’m engaged. I hate to say i but I don’t know if I’ll ever talk with my mother again. And I don’t know if I want to invite her to my wedding… I love about everyone on her side of the family… I’m really close with especially 2 of my cousins there. But if I didn’t invite her, I know my grandmother, her, and possibly some of my aunts would shun me… but yea. I don’t know. I really just want to move on from that stage of my life but on another note, she IS my mother…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD_fWTbGAs0
the guy in black suit in this video
I am getting married after a 6 month engagement. I’m a full time student and work, so I have 0 days off.. I’m either in school, working or studying. To add to the madness I am trying to plan the wedding. To add to the chaos my fiancee and I are arguing a lot more than before we were engaged. I also pay all of the bills, do all of the laundry and keep the house clean. He’s off 4 days a week and feels house chores are the woman’s responsibility. He has offered to chip in. Anyways, I am just concerned this fighting will follow us into our marraige and I am having second thoughts. Is this normal? Any advice?
My fiancee and i just got engaged about a week ago we have been together a couple of years but i am starting to feel like i made a mistake but i am not sure! My fiancee and i started dating about a month after my ex left me after i found out she was having an affair with another man! Well my trust was chit and i was hurting well my fiancee and i have been friends our entire lives! Well one thing led to another and we started dating! Well she loves me so much and i don’t want to hurt her but now that we are engaged and planning our wedding i keep thinking this is a mistake and i do not know why to be honest because i do love her a lot so i do not understand these feelings at all! What should i do? My fiancee has noticed something has been up and keeps asking about it but i just been distancing myself from her. Advice?
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