Wedding Planning Tips

Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!

Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!

Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!

Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!

need some opinions on which one us better, and what would be some good parts to add, or if it was a movie what scene would you add. I need an idea on first kiss and stuff, just tell the truth.
I am going to write another story. Usually my books are romantic, funny, but serious. I always imagine a middle aged woman as my main character. Usually Diane Lane, Cher, ect.
I need to know what my audiance would be more interested in reading. Here are my 2 options.
1 – Tess is a woman who works at minimun wage, and she always wanted to be a singer. So she signs up for a contest where there are 100 people competing, and each week they eliminate 10, abd the final 30 get to work at a dance club, while the winner goes on tour. Tess enters, and one of the mean judges (Sean) takes a hate into her, until she drives him home one night. Later on about 5 weeks into the compitition, they go to Sean’s sister’s wedding and have their first kiss dancing. And finally she wins 1st place and has an option to go on tour, but chooses to stay home with Sean forever.
2 – Sheryl lives in Iowa, but desides to take a vacation in LA for 1 month. She stays at a big hotel and is all alone, devorced twice and widdowed once. She gets a post card with a picture of the hotel on it, and writes “To the love of my life. Please come get me. I’ll be here until January 1st ” Then she writes her room number and tosses it out the window. The post card gets around by wind, ect, and soon a man named Steve finds it and wants to rescue Sheryl. But Sheryl gets scared so she changes rooms with another woman right before Steve gets there, and Steve falls for the other woman but on new years eve he breaks up with her because he finds out she’s bot Sheryl. On Chirstmas Eve, Sheryl is alone in a bar and her drink is pricy, so Steve whom come in, offers to pay for it, and he just knows that it’s Sheryl <3

A little over a yr. ago my ex-fiance left me after 7 yrs. together. He shortly thereafter became involved with someone else. It is my opinion that he left me for her although, he denies it. I at that time severed all ties with him & have not spoken to him in over a yr., not because I stopped loving him but, because he caused me such pain & devastation by what he did. There was never any closure if there is such a thing nor do I know the true reason for what he did. I honestly have to say I never saw it coming. He had just bought me flowers 2 days before ending it & had also, spoken with my daughter shortly before that about wedding plans. Needless to say, I am still dumbfounded by what he did & it still pains me to this day not knowing why he did what he did.
Several mths. ago his sister who remained in contact with me throughout this past yr. & unsolicited by me, informed me out of the blue that my ex was no longer with this other woman & that the family was very happy about that. We have never spoken of him or his gf or what he did to me up until she told me this news. I’m still not sure why she felt the need to clue me in but, I suspect it is because she & the rest of the family always secretly hoped we would be reunited as they always thought of me as family. My only response to this news was that I was surprised to hear that & that I did still love him & probably always would. I also, told her that I had hoped that maybe someday he would come back to me. Her response was that he was a dumbass & maybe someday he would wake up.
I will admit that I have hoped that he would come forth & admit he had made a mistake & I also, have wished that maybe we could work on possibly making things work with us again. I know that anyone reading this may think I am a fool for wanting him back & that I could never probably trust him again but, I can’t help what I feel in my heart. There was a lot of good in our relationship as far as I am concerned. I think he felt that way also, since he cried & held me the day he ended it & told me he loved me but, was not happy with things. What transpired that day still confuses me. He also, continued to call me everyday for 3 wks. after telling me he still loved me & wasn’t saying it was over completely, that he just needed time to get his head together. Of course, this all gave me false hope until I found out about her & that is when I stopped all contact. He continued for several mths. to drive by my house & told his friends he was not happy with his new gf & that he thought he may of made a mistake. I did not respond to any of this. That is why I can’t understand why he has not tried to contact me since he & his gf have split up unless it is because he is afraid to approach me after what he did to me.
As far as he knows I have moved on & probably hate him for what he did. It now weighs heavily on my mind whether I should swallow my pride & contact him or just wait a little longer to see what he does if anything. I’m growing very impatient & I feel like I might be wasting my time waiting for him to make the first move plus a part of me feels like he should be the one to make amends. I don’t need to hear that I should get him out of my head & move on- I know that would probably be the smart thing to do but, how do you throw away 7 yrs. of your life? I also, know that I can’t move on unless I know for absolute certainty that there is no more hope for us. I am asking for your honest advise on how I should approach this matter….wait & see what he does or contact him- Please, help me make this decision.

My son is getting married in a few weeks. I also recently found out I am descended from royalty. I have decided to utilize my right to the first night with his new bride, as I have always thought she was darling. Is there a certain process involved, or is it something I am able to demand given my royal heritage?

I was watching say yes to the dress today and saw a beautiful gown that I believe a brides mother pulled. Claudia was complaining about girls who are first time shoppers and then she wasn’t even able to pull the right dress for the girl. I would really like to know what dress this is. It was a sweetheart top with a flowing bottom I believe it was A-Line. Thank you for your help in advance

“Dyliana!! Hurry up we’re gonna be late,” I yelled,while banging on the door.
I waited five mor minutes,but she was still in the bathroom doing her hair,i mean like what more can she do to pin straight hair that would’nt come out i mean really.
“Ugh!” I groaned,and then stormed down stairs where i found Ms.Morales cooking my sister and I breakfest.
The smell of eggs,toast,and sausage filled the air.then I noticed something else.It was sweet and I longed for it.Then my sister came down stairs complaining about how it’s too early to be getting and that it should be illegal.Then she said something else,but I could’nt understand what she said because she stared mumbling.
“Good morning girls,”Ms. Morales said,handing us our plates,as we took our seats at the counter.
“Your parents had to leave earlier than usual.They had some important clientel to meet.”
We both rolled our eyes and started eating.
“Why have parents if they’re never around,” my sister said,pretending like they were right there in front of her.
It was almost time to leave and our friend,Sam,called to say she would’nt be able to pick us up for school.That ment we had to drive ourself.We made our way to the front door, grabbing our Gucci sunglasses, and handbag, then headed for the four car garage and got in our cars and took off. My sister drives a black and hot pink 2011 Dodge Charger ST with hemi and I drive a black and red 2011 Chevy Cammaro. For the record, our mom and dad gotus everything that we have now (from the clothes to the cars). Our mom is a wedding planner, (the most demanded. She’s done Jennifer Lopez’s wedding, Will Smith, and Kloh’e Kardashian, just to name a few), and our dad owns the restaurant “Bienvenidos”, and hes got them all over the country.
Our famil is from the island of Cuba, but we live in MIami, Florida. My sister, Dyliana, and I go to Lake View High School, it’s not the best but we make it work. Dyliana goes out with the captain of the wresling team and I go out with the captain of the foot ball team. Jadiel, the captain of the wrestling team, is Columbian, with black wavy hair pulled back into a pony-tail and a shape up to make it look official. He has greenish blue eyes and a baby face with a body to die for.Carlos, the captain of the football team, is Puerto Rican with black tight curls and a shap up. He has blue eyes and a little beard (it’s cute on him though). And his body, OMG!! Can you say God?
So we pulled in the school parkinglot, and rite into our usual parking spot. I looked around as i got out my car and Dyliana told me to open my trunk so she could get her bag out.
“You’re always leaving your **** in my car,” I said in an annoyed tone, and rolling my eyes.
She said nothing. All she did was roll her eyes and sigh. We walked up the front of the building and saw Carlos and Jadiel sitting on top of the picnic table talking to their friends. Dyliana walked up to Jadiel and smacked him.
“What the hell,” he yelled, rubbing his arm.
“That’s for not calling me back last night asshole,” Dyliana snapped, while putting her bag on the table.
“I’m sorry. I had practice and then me and the guys went to get a bite to eat and when I got home, I figured you were sleeping,” jadiel explained to Dyliana, but she wasnt buying it.
“Baby I’m sorry,” he added.
“Shut up punk,” I said taking off my sunglasses.
Jadiel just looked at me as if to say,”***** please.”Then he said what’s up and tried to get sister not mad at him anymore.
“So what’s your excuse for last night,cause your *** didn’t have practice,” I said,with a pissed off look,smacking carlos in the back of the head.
He just looked at me all wide eyed.He didn’t answer me and I left.
“Come with me to my locker so I can get my stuff for first period,” I told my sister and she grabbed her stuff stuff and left with me.
“I swear guys are dumb as **** when it comes to girls,” my sister said, opening her locker.
“That’s the truth..But I wanted to talk to you about last night.I had a strange dream,but it felt real,” I said,slipping a book into my bag.
I could tell she knew what I was talking about because she just looked at me.Then I got a splitting headach.
“Are you alright?,” my sister asked me.
I just stuck my head in my locker and closed my eyes hoping that it would just go away, but it didnt.Then I heard a voice wisper to me,a song that seemed very familiar to me,but I couldn’t remember it,completely.So we made our way to first period.
“Okay well..I’ll catch you later.I need to sleep off this headache.Its killing me,” I told my sister,and headed straight for my class.Then Carlos stopped me right outside the class room.
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so Im going to a wedding tommarow & i wanted to wear some makeup to cover up my acne, problem is i’ve never weared foundation/powder/conceler/primer.
I really dont want a caked up face please, so can anyone just give me the details on foundation/power and all that stuff? I mean how do you get your perfect shade and do you use all of them and pile them up or?
By far, the only thing I know about foundation/powder; is that it covers up blemishes and theres different colors depending on your skin tone. I want the perfect match for it can look natural.
How can i figure out what my tone is? Any ideas on how to apply it? I’m 16 by the way?