Wedding Planning Tips

Alright, So i am 20 years old and currently in an amazing relationship with a guy that I can imagine spending forever with. We have been dating for about two and a half years and we often talk about the future and marriage and kids and jobs and all of that stuff and his family is like my own and we are all so close but what they dont know is that I am starting to have feelings for another guy. I went to my friends bachelorette party and the bride-to-be’s brother came with a few of his friends and I of course ended up hitting it off with one of the friends. We’ve been talking on facebook and through texts (just as friends) but of course after starting to talk to him, we found out what we have in common and all of that stuff and he is 22 and a cop and also works construction but he lives in NH and I live in CT, so we’re about an hr and a half away from eachother, my boyfriend now is my age and lives 5 mins away. We have been best friends since we first met and as much as I cant imagine being with someone else, this other guy is on my mind once in a while and ive been trying to talk to to him less because I know that that can sometimes help but it just sucks. This guy and I have so much in common but so do me and my boyfriend and its hard cuz we go to different colleges now and we only see eachother a day of two a week but i’m starting to feel different about our relationship. I feel like I want to live the single life for a bit and figure out what i want in life first before i either continue with this boyfriend now or seek a new one. I was about to break up with my boyfriend a week or so ago but after talking and realizing how much we love eachother, I couldnt do it. He said he would try to make an effort to fix the other problems in the relationship and we’d go from there. He’s been improving and its been amazing but i cant help but wonder what other people would do in my spot. I may or may not follow your advice but I am still looking for opinions. I tend to be attracted to guys older than me because I am mature for my age and that is where this new guy fits in with everything ive looked for in the past but im just so sickened by the thought of not being with my bf now……
i dont know what to do. I know they say give it time and that is what ive been doing but i just dont like not knowing what the future will bring or what i cant prepare myself for.
I’m not looking for rude feedback, this is a serious time in my life and with the stresses of school right now, im trying to eliminate my relationship problems.
Thank You

Getting married can be a very exciting time in a young couple’s life it can also be a very stressful and overwhelming time when it comes to planning probably the biggest party you will ever organize. It is a celebration and a few planned and organized everything well in advance you need never worry about being completely stressed about everything am being overwhelmed by the amount of things that need to get done beforehand.

It really all comes down to making sure you have a wedding planning checklist. The idea of this is that you know of a complete plan on all the things you need to do before your wedding day and assign dates and timelines to each and every one to make sure everything is done well in advance of every day. You would be surprised at the amount of people that do not sit down and take the time to do a simple little task like this. But, let’s be honest this is key in making sure that you do not get completely stressed out. It is also key in making sure that you forget nothing and do not believe some important decisions until the last minute.

You’ll find many of these wedding checklists available on the Internet. You can simply download the checklist and then edit this to suit your own personal needs. You’ll never find a checklist that suits you 100% and you will need to personalize this and make your own changes. It’s really just a guideline to give you an indication of how long it can take to get things done and making sure that you have everything in place before the big day. Things like organizing your transport, organizing your photographer, organizing flowers, wedding rings, wedding cake, and so many other things it basically helps you to make sure that everything keeps on track.

Another aspect of the planning is also making sure that you keep a track of your budget. No matter what your budget is used to need to make sure that you can account for all the money you are spending. If you can make savings by purchasing some stuff online, which is usually cheaper this is all the better for you. In this present economic climate you may also be able to negotiate good rates for wedding transport and your wedding photographs. There are lots of opportunities out there to ensure that you can save as much as possible and keep your budget in line with what you think it is going to cost.

All in all this is a wonderful time in your life and won’t that you should not be stressed in doubt whatsoever. It’s really all about planning and if you can master this in the beginning it will be a very enjoyable time and something you’ll treasure for the rest of your life.