My fiance and I are getting married in 3 weeks. She left another man to be with me. About every 3 months he has checked in to see how she is. I told him to stop, back in August which he agreed to do. He found out our wedding date and he started emailing her daily.
She then made plans to meet with him over Thanksgiving after I left. She did not know I knew this. However, I informed her that I felt like she was going to see him and that if she did the wedding was off. She set a date and time to meet him and lied to me about it. I then said if you see him it is over. She then realized I was on to her yet she still did not know how.
Long story short, we got into a huge fight after we returned and she looked me in the eye and lied.
I love this woman very much and resisted the urge to show her how I knew.
She says he means nothing to her. Should I trust her? I have even said that if they want to talk I want to be present but he won’t go for that. I gave in and told her I was sorry mostly because I love her so much. However, my trust has dwindled to almost nothing.
The other thing is that he happens to know who I am however he does not know me. He initiates the contact and then she continues the conversation instead of ignoring it and shutting it down. I am a large athletic man. He happens to be a sportswriter who knows how fast and strong I am. Supposedly he is a bit afraid of me. I sent him a message and let him know that he is violating our agreement. He did not reply.
I also know she called him a few days ago and it appears it was for him to discontinue contact with her. I believe this because there has not been any contact that I know of. This appeared to happen shortly before I sent him a message. The other thing is that he has been a long time friend of her family. I have tried being respectful but my patience is wearing.
Thoughts please.
My husband and I been married for a year and 9 months almost gonna be 2 years we been together for 2 years and 9 months it’s almost gonna be 3 years:)we weren’t together that long before we got married we went to high school together but during high school his parents didn’t want him to get married but they respect his wish once we got married they were happy but not excited his mom didn’t cry at all at our wedding.I was born here and my husband was born in Mexico he had no papers we got married in his backyard but in a civil ceremony and we had our ghetto wedding reception at his backyard lol.I was 19 and he was 20 were both the same age,Were living with his family renting a small room in his aunt,uncle and his 3 cousins in a 2 bedroom and 1 bath house our room was the smallest we sleep in a full size bed and we share the bathroom with his family.I get a long with my in laws really good except my brother in law and his neighbors don’t really like me I’m really good at cooking and cleaning I’m working but I’m not going to school because I don’t want to my Hubby was going to college 7 months later he got an international drivers license and he got a full time job:).He’s taking time off from school just to work full time.We both drive his mom’s car me and my husband are so in love everything is going good.Were still living in a 2 bedroom and 1 bath house with his aunt,uncle and 3 of his cousins for almost 2 years but were moving out and were already planning on having a baby:)we never took a vacation together before as husband and wife being married is treating me good there’s times we go out with our friends and times we go out as a couple I wonder if me and my Hubby will continue our life’s together we hardly ever argue.I have friends that have kids,I want a baby so bad so I could fit in with my friends.My hubby and I are already planning on having a baby will I ever continue to live happily married to the love of my life:)
I’ve known this guy for about 11 years and I’ve been in love with him ever since. We dated for a little while when we were teenagers but it ended when he moved a couple hours away. Since then we see each other at least once a year, maybe more. Anyways, for about 6 months now, I have been have almost identical dreams about him and his family. The first dream I had, was me and him walking down a path and his mom and dad were waiting on the other side, I have never met his dad in real life and in my dream I told him it was nice to meet him. In another dream, we were sitting in his bedroom and his siblings were in there with us, when one of them disappeared. We spent the rest of the dream searching for her. In another dream, he was getting married and his mother and I was trying to stop the wedding. Last night I dreamt we were in his kitchen and we were eating dinner with his mom and siblings (his dad was only in the first dream). In each dream I look at his siblings and I cant believe how big they are because the last time I saw them they were all little kids. These are just a few examples. I’ve been having dreams like this for about 6 months. Recently they have become closer together. Does anyone have any ideas on what they can mean? Thank you
seriously?!
uh, dont spend hundreds or htousands on a building (which uses utitlites,etc) and catering( which uses plastics and fuelst ot heat or cool, etc) and force people to wear ridiculous clothing made in chinese sweat shops.
best to just forgo the whole thiing and get a civil wedding.
ok so i am 17 she is 16 we met 5 months ago and she was just getting out of a terrrible relationship and she cuts herself because of it me and her have been telling each other we love each other for the past 2 months weve been cuddling making out etc. 3 days ago she waited in the rain just
to cuddle with me for an hour but then yesterday we got into a fight sorta :/ i wanna date but shes not ready and she says shes scared of hurting me because shes the type of girl with low self esteem and very low confidence so she cuddles with guys to make herself feel special but she texted me lastnight and said i love you but im scared to fall in love with you and scared im gonna get hurt she said that those guys dont mean a thing and that she wants me needs me and doesnt want me to leave cause shed be lost without me i feel like me and her can be together and should
be weve both had rough pasts VERY VERY ROUGH and we both understand each other and where like pretty much the same person i love her and i know she loves me but she is having trouble she cuts herself btw so i know shes not playing me cause that wouldnt even make sense so ive kinda been thinking we both have HUGE AMOUNTS of stress and frustration some of the stuff we have been through is terrible an it has alot to do with our parents abusing and hitting and pretty much getting the **** beat out of us so i was thinkg cause we have all this stress and frustration and we both love each other wouldnt it make sense PLEASE IM NOT TRYING TO SOUND BAD OR ANYTHING HERE but wouldnt it make sense just for us to have sex? i mean we love grinding on each other but its not gonna get us off obviously and i know sex is good for realieving stress
and im not trying to just do this to have sex
its not even a issue i dont need it but i think it will honestly help
what i figure would happen is if we do it we would do it once
and it wouldnt be a half hearted thing id be put everything i have
into making her happy and making her feel good as possible then
my needs would come last i think it would really help us
not only get our stress and frustration out but i think
we would become better friends as well and wed be able to think
more clearly with all the stress gone im not a dum *** i know not to
get her pregnant i know condoms i know not nutting in her
im well aware of that stuff but does that seem like a good idea?
there arent any downsides cause no one gets hurt
i stay her bestfriend and we both end up happy so it makes sense doesnt it?
BY THE WAY the abuse isnt as much now as it use to be and where not virgins and i havent talked to her about this yet i planned on talking to her tmmrw about it and i need advice
My stepfather has played a big role in my life and I want him to feel included also so I was hoping to have my bio dad and my step-dad walk me down the aisle. On a side note, I’m not looking to have a strictly traditional wedding. It’s going to be a relaxing beach wedding….
i’m getting married in the temple, so i know i should wear a wedding dress that is modest…only problem is that i think that sleeves/coverups and high neck lines are super ugly. i wear short sleeved dresses all the time, but they look funny on a wedding dress to me. all my friends who got married in the temple wore very modest dresses…and they all looked frumpy. the sleeves made their shoulders look huge and the neck lines were just unflattering. i feel like i should look my best for my wedding day, but all the modest dresses make me look bigger. i don’t want to be immodest…i don’t want any cleavage at my wedding and i will bite the bullet and cover my shoulders, but how where/how can i get a dress that is a happy medium? would removable sleeves work? im planning on wearing the outfit the temple gives you when you are actually getting sealed anyway. any ideas?
I have been having these dreams now and again for while. We have been together for 3 years now, we are engaged and have started the planning for our wedding next spring. Last night I had a bad one and I just wish they would stop!! Dream: Day of our wedding and he is nowhere to be found. Hear some noises coming from a bedroom, open the door and there he is having sex with his ex wife! In the dream I keep saying, “how could you do this to me? Its our wedding day!!” I woke up in tears! Now the only thing I have interpreted from this dream, is he has cheated on me a little under a year ago, next Halloween will be 1 year. With my best friend. Yes I now have trust issues because of it but I have forgave him ‘or so I thought’? Then of course there is his ex wife who we still have to deal with because he had kids with her. Then the last part is, the wedding part of my dream… because it has been on my mind quite a bit.
This hasn’t been the only time I have had dreams about him cheating. Last dream was with a classmate I know from high school that now works at the gas station in town. But alot of the dreams involve him and his ex; who he only tolerates because of his kids.
Is this my conscious telling me this marriage isn’t right? Or am I just being insecure because he has done it before? Either way how do I make these hurtful dreams stop!? PLEASE no rude comments!
I have been having these dreams now and again for while. We have been together for 3 years now, we are engaged and have started the planning for our wedding next spring. Last night I had a bad one and I just wish they would stop!! Dream: Day of our wedding and he is nowhere to be found. Hear some noises coming from a bedroom, open the door and there he is having sex with his ex wife! In the dream I keep saying, “how could you do this to me? Its our wedding day!!” I woke up in tears! Now the only thing I have interpreted from this dream, is he has cheated on me a little under a year ago, next Halloween will be 1 year. With my best friend. Yes I now have trust issues because of it but I have forgave him ‘or so I thought’? Then of course there is his ex wife who we still have to deal with because he had kids with her. Then the last part is, the wedding part of my dream… because it has been on my mind quite a bit.
This hasn’t been the only time I have had dreams about him cheating. Last dream was with a classmate I know from high school that now works at the gas station in town. But alot of the dreams involve him and his ex; who he only tolerates because of his kids.
Is this my conscious telling me this marriage isn’t right? Or am I just being insecure because he has done it before? Either way how do I make these hurtful dreams stop!? PLEASE no rude comments!
I have been having these dreams now and again for while. We have been together for 3 years now, we are engaged and have started the planning for our wedding next spring. Last night I had a bad one and I just wish they would stop!! Dream: Day of our wedding and he is nowhere to be found. Hear some noises coming from a bedroom, open the door and there he is having sex with his ex wife! In the dream I keep saying, “how could you do this to me? Its our wedding day!!” I woke up in tears! Now the only thing I have interpreted from this dream, is he has cheated on me a little under a year ago, next Halloween will be 1 year. With my best friend. Yes I now have trust issues because of it but I have forgave him ‘or so I thought’? Then of course there is his ex wife who we still have to deal with because he had kids with her. Then the last part is, the wedding part of my dream… because it has been on my mind quite a bit.
This hasn’t been the only time I have had dreams about him cheating. Last dream was with a classmate I know from high school that now works at the gas station in town. But alot of the dreams involve him and his ex; who he only tolerates because of his kids.
Is this my conscious telling me this marriage isn’t right? Or am I just being insecure because he has done it before? Either way how do I make these hurtful dreams stop!? PLEASE no rude comments!
