Wedding Planning Tips

I am 20 years old, have children, planning my wedding, fiance has a good job, I’m so close to starting up a babysitting business, educated, own place, pay our bills, make smart decisions, don’t drink, smoke,do drugs, church gal, my kids are well behaved and well mannered, abide by the law. YET MY MOTHER WHOM LIVES IN AZ AND I IN CA WON’T STAY THE **** OUT OF MY PERSONAL SPACE. Like telling me feeding my son at 8 at night is too late and chewing me out. She doesn’t know I got in at 6 and didn’t finish sinner til 7:30. Or telling me how to raise my newborn daughter , she didn’t help with my son, bit oh now she wants to tell me all the **** I already know. Or blasting my business on Facebook or telling me to watch my damn mouth like im some lil kid in her house. She wants me to disown my sister cuz of their falling out but I won’t so she bitches at me. Idk can someone be my therapist for a minute? I respect, obey, and honor thou mother, BUT UGH SHE MAKES ME SO MAD. What can I say that won’t disrespect her? Thanks, a stressed out daughter. -_-

I’m currently in my sophomore year of undergrad studies in business management and I think I want to focus on weddings. How can I get a start in the industry right now? Should I start getting acquaintances to let me plan their weddings or is that too much? Do planners have or usually need interns? How much do planners typically make? Any answers or site references would be great!

I was heavier when I was younger and when I hit about 20 I lost a lot of weight and became very active. Now at 25, with work, school, wedding planning, and a million other things, I have fallen behind. I have only gained a little weight but I feel it will just keep going if I can’t change and get out of this rut. However, just getting back into my routine hasn’t been easy and the more time goes by, the worse I feel about myself. What have been some successful jump starts for you? Are there any vitamins or drinks I should take? What are the best exercises to start out with since my muscles have been so useless lately? Any help with this would be greatly appreciated!

I recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me with one of his co-workers. He keeps denying it over and over again, but I have several people from his work tell me he’s lying through his teeth. I really want to teach him a lesson, and I came up with the best/worst idea imaginable, considering how much of a cassanova and ‘ladys man’ he considers himself to be.
I want to see him dressed up in a gigantic big dress, like the kind they have on those Big Fat Gypsy Wedding shows. I want to stick a humongous poofy drag wig on him, give him a makeover, then dump him out downtown or in the middle of nowhere.
Here’s the best part and the part I need some help with… I need to know a safe way of having him rendered unconscious for all this, I’m thinking of getting him really drunk since he’s a super heavy sleeper once he passes out. The other thing I need help with – I don’t want him waking up and rubbing his makeup off or getting undressed as fast as he can – I want that wig and dress to stay on him for as long as possible. I’d love to be able to watch him struggle to get free in a hilariously huge dress, with a big updo wig tossling around his face. I want to see him trapped in the ultimate form of feminimity, making him go from ‘lady’s man’ to ‘ladyman’!
What would be the best way to trap him inside of this dress? I was thinking of gluing the entire bodice of the gown to his upperbody, although I’m worried the glue might react and melt the fabric to his skin. Maybe I can just glue the zipper and use some sort of hair bonding glue on the wig, like what they use for hair extensions? Perhaps taping his hands shut into balls so he can’t pull anything off? One of those fur muff handwarmers could be amazing for this – putting his hands in the muff and locking them together with handcuffs! He wouldn’t be able to get his hands out of it then! Oh, so many ideas!
There is NO budget limit on this at ALL. I was saving up for a trip to Cuba this winter, but I don’t mind blowing as much money as I can on a gown, wig, and materials/devices to keep him locked inside them for as long as I can. Maybe I can handcuff his ankles together once he has the dress on, so he has to mince around and can’t run? I don’t want to keep him in a basement or anything weird like that, I want him to be stuck in public looking like a ridiculous gypsy bride, and have people taking videos of him and pics on their cell phones for a big YouTube debut. I can see some incredibly huge wigs on eBay by searching for ‘drag wig’ – I’d LOVE to stick him in one of those!
I also need help finding a place to get the dress from – I want something that looks like one of those ‘Big Fat Gyspy Wedding’ dresses, but I don’t know where to buy one? I just want something big enough that he’ll have a really hard time moving around in it.
What I need help with: If I can get tips on safely/permanently attaching or bonding the wig to his real hair, where to buy such a huge dress, ways to attach or stick the dress to his body so he can’t take it off, and some sort of makeup that’ll stay smudge proof, waterproof, pretty much ANYTHING proof for at least an entire day or two, it’d be much appreciated! If I get enough help and can actually pull it off, I can promise you pics/youtube videos of a cheating lying dirtbag stuck downtown with a crowd of people around him laughing, trying desperately to get himself free from a huge girly prison of a dress with a big silly wig swooshing around on his head, unable to run away from his situation. I seriously want this REALLY bad.
Any help is greatly appreciated!

i lived with my bf who lives abroad for about 5 months. i did this to take a break and do some traveling and soul searching. i paid for it myself and i had a great time but i had to return home to continue school. i live my parents so i can afford school. i cook and clean and basicaly keep to myself, i try to avoid relying on my parents. up until now i got a long with my parents fine..they kept out of my business and let me do my thing. my bf is planning on coming out to visit very soon and is looking into moving to my country. this is a very difficult process and we are trying to find the best solution for us. my mother keeps nagging me about why we just dont get married already. shes living in a “mother knows best” mentally, one that believes since we were unmarried and lived together that we should have been married yesterday. personally we would love to but me and my bf know this will open up a world of stress mainly financial debit,primarly due to the legal fees assoicated with moving to another country; which neither me or my boyfriend can deal with right now. We want to get married down the line…we just dont think right now is the right time. I told her this, that its something we are considering but our situation is unique and we need to be flexible and dont want to rush into something as serious as marriage. for some reason she seems to think that all her meddling is going to help me but all i can see it doing is hurting my relationship . she even seems to think it cute and likes to mention how i am just a baby (im 24) and how its her job to be a meddling mother because she knows how it should be but i am personally getting more and more frustrated and insulted by her constant disregard of my own judgment and opinions. i dont think shes thinking past what others maybe thinking and the excitement of planning a wedding. how can i get her to back off so i can be an adult?

Im 26, boyfriend 30. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years and we are technically engaged (as in we are at the stage of involving our families) and I just want to know how far ahead should I plan for the future??? If we are oficially engaged then I will move abroad (exciting!!) and there will be little time to plan for the future (with a wedding soon and all) so how far into future should a person plan????? I’ve already started saving stuff/items for after marriage like excellent clothes, makeup, etc etc and wondering if this is wise or stupid altogether?!? If I plan, im scared something might go wrong however if i dont plan then im scared that I am NOT prepared for the future. I am 1000% this is the right guy, just waiting for both of our families response (out of respect).
Someone please advise!!!

My husband and I had a civil ceremony in January and are planning our wedding for next June. We’ve been together for over 4 years and have known each other since we were 10. Our relationship has had its ups and downs, but lately its all up. We are very happy and I really love being with him. But, it seems like sex is very important to him. I always feel that everyday we need to do something. He says hes like that because we DON’T have sex. But we could have sex all weekend, and Monday comes along, and hes all annoyed and “frustrated” because we never have sex. Honestly, I don’t like this pressure to have to perform. And when I have my period, he calls it “Head week” and I need to give him head like everyday. Honestly, I am just not that sexual. I feel like hes always trying to turn me on CONSTANTLY. Im doing the dishes and he would come up behind me and start trying to get me going..but when Im doing this dishes im not in the mood. He does it all the time. He claims im a tease because all i do is walk around in my underwear..but when Im home that’s what is comfortable for me. I honestly feel so overwhelmed with many things in my life, and this is just piling on.
And we have done almost everything sexually save a threesome. Role play, toys, porn..etc. We’ve gotten very kinky and I liked it. I guess I feel that all of this complaining and pressure to have to have sex EVERYDAY all the time is really ruining my self-esteem (knowing his last girlfriend was a nymphomaniac and bisexual aka two threesomes in their relationship). It has gotten so bad that I dont even pleasure myself. The very idea of getting sexual in any way makes me tense up. We havent had sex in a week and I don’t like this.
He claims that im so sexy and beautiful that he cant resist me and he never forces sex on me. I honestly don’t know what to do. The very idea of getting naked in front of him gives me anxiety. Im starting to think that hes not being romantic anymore. I don’t know. Please help? What can I do? (Im never EVER having a threesome fyi..plus he said he has no desire for that).

My husband and I had a civil ceremony in January and are planning our wedding for next June. We’ve been together for over 4 years and have known each other since we were 10. Our relationship has had its ups and downs, but lately its all up. We are very happy and I really love being with him. But, it seems like sex is very important to him. I always feel that everyday we need to do something. He says hes like that because we DON’T have sex. But we could have sex all weekend, and Monday comes along, and hes all annoyed and “frustrated” because we never have sex. Honestly, I don’t like this pressure to have to perform. And when I have my period, he calls it “Head week” and I need to give him head like everyday. Honestly, I am just not that sexual. I feel like hes always trying to turn me on CONSTANTLY. Im doing the dishes and he would come up behind me and start trying to get me going..but when Im doing this dishes im not in the mood. He does it all the time. He claims im a tease because all i do is walk around in my underwear..but when Im home that’s what is comfortable for me. I honestly feel so overwhelmed with many things in my life, and this is just piling on.
And we have done almost everything sexually save a threesome. Role play, toys, porn..etc. We’ve gotten very kinky and I liked it. I guess I feel that all of this complaining and pressure to have to have sex EVERYDAY all the time is really ruining my self-esteem (knowing his last girlfriend was a nymphomaniac and bisexual aka two threesomes in their relationship). It has gotten so bad that I dont even pleasure myself. The very idea of getting sexual in any way makes me tense up. We havent had sex in a week and I don’t like this.
He claims that im so sexy and beautiful that he cant resist me and he never forces sex on me. I honestly don’t know what to do. The very idea of getting naked in front of him gives me anxiety. Im starting to think that hes not being romantic anymore. I don’t know. Please help? What can I do? (Im never EVER having a threesome fyi..plus he said he has no desire for that).

I’m getting married in a rainforest. I was planning on getting a simple, strapless, flowy wedding dress. However, my fiancé has recently told me that he’s always pictured me in a huge, poofy ballgown!
I’m going dress shopping soon, and now I don’t know what to do!
Do I go with what I want or what he wants?!

My fiance and I both love nature & gemstones and we’d really like to incorporate this into our wedding. We were thinking gemstone jewelry (like people could wear amethysts or sapphires) but how else could I use gemstones? Like for decorations or party favors ? thanks.