Wedding Planning Tips

Ignore grammar and spelling. that’s the beginning of my story, it’s placed in the 19th century England. It’s kinda twisted but I hope you like it, just tell me what you think. If you want to know more or read more about the story, email me.
The hot sun beaded down on my face, the overpowering smell of cherries stirred up my stomach, but it didn’t matter. Out here was the only place women in heat and greedy men didn’t hound me. I needed time to think about why in was here. I have to focus, I can’t waste time on wine and parties.
“well well well, lord Claude has found his way to my secret hide away”. I should have known the queen of hearts herself would find me.
“Victoria, you look as fine as ever. Thank you for welcoming me into your home. I am honored to be a guest at your return party”. I didn’t feel honored at all or welcomed.
Victoria sat next to me. “You seemed uninterested in my return parties. Quite a shame, I worked so hard studying abroad”. Victoria looked me in the eyes, they seemed lively and wild but the burned a hole threw me.” If you aren’t here to enjoy yourself, then why are you here? Perhaps you are looking for a different kind of entertainment”.
I couldn’t take her any more, she’s too naïve, too young. “Victoria, that entertainment is not what I want from you. Besides I am not going to betray my fiancee so quickly”.
” oh lord Claude you tease me”. I couldn’t handle her any more, as politely as I could, I stood up and started walking. Victoria huffed “your a sick sick man Claude, playing with young girls hearts and leaving them. Your hardly a man. Taking in that useless sister of yours. She isn’t worth her salt, we all know she is your half sister”. Her venom made me stop. “Not lonely that but an Earl who serves the queen to solve horrific murders. It’s terrfiying to think you habent gone mad, and frankly how you understand and solve them is unnatural.”
Sick, am I? I turned back to Victoria and her wrist. “your right, it is horrifying to think I having gone mad. But you see, death is so beautiful, like when a child is born. No one knows whe that child has been and no one knows where it will go when it dies. What is beyond us is a mystery. Some leave in peace, some in pieces. Almost like what that masked killer is doing to his victims. Doesnt it frighten you, he could be near.”
Victoria start to breath heavy. I knew she was scared, which was good. I didn’t want anyone, especially not someone as loud and easy to fool like Victoria, to run around and become another victim.
“your horrible, and your mother was right to kill herself. A child like you is no dream of women. Look at yourself, seventeen and already heartless and cold. You will die alone.”
You will die alone, those word stung and made my scars come alive. I gave up, no amount of word can equal that. “good bye Victoria, I will see you very soon.” I left her there, that was all I could do.
You will die alone. Those toxic word filled me up. There was no way around it, I was going to die alone. I won’t, I can’t, take anyone down my path. Not my princess nor my bride will suffer like I have.

I loved this guy but he didn’t love me I knew it, and I was tired of being used as a side thingy. So I told his real gf about us about two weeks ago. Not a word since. No abuse either. I feel guilty for what I did, horribly so. I was already suicidal before this happened, more so now. I think about calling him every day, I think about him constantly, yet I know he is bad, and that calling would be stupid. I don’t want to be yelled at, I feel bad enough. I love someone who never respected me, used me and now hates me. I have no happiness in my life and I realize I hate myself. I also have depression. I think about suicide more often now.
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And also, I did what I did as a petty and pathetic revenge attempt, because I hated him using me and to be honest I felt she had no place taking him from me.
I hated that she was alive.
I hated her so much. I resented every word he said about her.
I don’t deserve to live, what I did was evil, and not even smart evil. She probably didn’t believe a word.
So I feel guilty and like filth, but he and her still love each other and are probably happily planning the f*cking wedding. I want to hang my miserable neck from the ceiling for what I did. IT WAS OUT OF CHARACTER. I am usually a good person. Sometimes. I would never do what I did, yet I still did it!

Hey guys! My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and we’re extremely happy together. We are engaged and our wedding is planned for the Summer of 2014. I am 17 nearly 18, and he’s nearly 19. Soon this year we’re getting our own apartment, my uncle owns a whole band of them so we will be getting it dirt cheap considering it looks over the Thames in London. We are not just partners but best friends, I love him with all my heart. You bet, we have been through a lot of crap together and if we didn’t fall apart after that then I don’t know what could break us. I would put my life on it that our future is basically guaranteed, we are perfect together. We both earn, my boyfriend works in a superb place for his age and his wage is way over average for his age also. Financial issues don’t concern us, and once we live together that will be the final hurdle. Yes, I do realise that we’d have to pay numerous bills, including everything we need to survive and food bills.. We’d be able to do everything we’d need to with ease. Anyway I am desperate for a baby, and always have been from the age of about 13! My boyfriend always says he would love one, but then says he wants to wait a couple of years, UNTIL the next time we see a newborn out and about, or a family member comes over with their baby. He has said so many times that he would love to be a dad now, but I know for a fact he just needs the courage to go ahead and do it. He tells me all the time that having a child of our own would just ‘make us’ and I totally agree. He knows that having babies aren’t always a bad things especially if your in a healthy happy relationship. I just think I need to give him the courage to go ahead and try for one. I don’t want any lectures about how young we are, and how much work babies are. Being brought up in the same house around 9 siblings and me being the 4th oldest, I do understand exactly how babies work, and that they’re not just there for a week or so. So if you feel the need to give me answers that I don’t want then please move on! All I want to know is if anyone has been in a similar situation, and if there’s anything I can say to just give my boyfriend the encouragement for us to do it. We both know it would make us completely. Thankyou [:

I am 25, living with my boyfriend of 3 years, found out last Wed. that I was pregnant. I stopped taking the pill in October..but only because I ran out and didn’t refill the prescription. My boyfriend was aware of this as well. So while this pregnancy was not “planned”, we both knew it was extremely possible. However, when I took the positive pregnancy tests I was completely shocked and for a night and day felt sad, alone, and completely scared. I quickly gained excitement to find out I was 6 weeks pregnant, which was further along than I originally thought. My boyfriend was so excited he told our roomate, coworkers, and his family. I was soon able to share in his excitement and we discussed gener preferences and baby names. Big mistake..because Monday morning I started spotting, then came the cramping, then came the clots..then today came the actual miscarriage. I had an ultrasound to confirm…and I am empty. I guess I just feel a lot of confusion right now and don’t know what to expect as far as my emotions, and how to deal with them. I have to go back to work, but don’t feel quite ready…but I want to know if Im overreacting by missing work since Monday when this started. I just feel so confused because i found out i was pregnant then a week later im not and then i have to tell people and then i have to go to work and pretend everythings normal and it was a wake up call to realize how unprepared I would be if I had a baby, but now I just want one more than ever because I know I can’t have it. Anyone have advice for how to get over this more quickly? Or how to go back to work…and life?

well..ok please read.i know its long but pleeasseee.
So at the beginning of the school year, my friend had a crush on this guy. My other friend, who LOVES having a laugh, told her to try to get with my crush (they dont know hes my crush) whos in my friends class. Ok so my friend…isn’t exactly the prettiest girl. she is EXTREMELY hairy and kind of chubby. But i find her pretty cause she has a gorgeous personality. ok so my other friend started writing the notes for her, which included disturbing things like i know where you live baby and you are the jelly to my peanut and justin bieber and selena gomez lyrics and much more. he used to sit next to me and i was the one who told him she liked him. he got freaked out. when he got the letters, which went on for like 2 months, i would laugh really loudly and obvious and he would always tell me and my friend to stop. once, another friend of mine found out (and he hates her) and me and her started planning a wedding for them, and he told ME to stop and not her like 1000x (and ofc my friend to stop sending him notes) so then after he told me to stop he sat down and started laughing telling me the stuff he read in the note. but i just laughed and didnt really talk to him. he’s in 8th grade, i’m in 7th but im supposed to be in 8th..i started school late. there was this 6th grader who had talked to him before and idk what she told him and he tickled her like WTF? anyway…we’ve locked eyes like a bajillion times. he just had a blank expression. but i think it was because i was starring at him lol. once i was going to my bus and he was waiting for his friend or something and we met eyes and he just froze. i looked away ofc. well he teased me once by getting my book and acting as if it was his and not wanting to give it back, he would like act as if he was gonna give it and didn’t and copied my facial expression…but i acted serious and didnt laugh and he looked a bit annoyed cause at the end he was like here..HERE! like rudely. um also the other day i had my notebook out (glee notebook) and he pointed to the fat girl and said shes hot and chunky which he was kidding about, and i just..FROZE. he was in back of me picking up books. he even repeated it again. some of his friends where sitting in front of me so probably for them.. oh and ive looked at him straight in the halls and hes staring in back of me and doesnt stare back..idk if he realized i was staring at him. any thoughts? oh and i’ve seen him hug girls and stuff and hes asked girls out…i barely know him but lol..love at first sight!! for me at least.

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THIS IS LONG BUT IF YOU DONT WANT TO READ ALL OF IT YOU CAN SCAN THROUGH AND YOU’LL GET THE IDEA OF WHATS GOING ON, Thanks. Any advise would be great.
My boyfriend has a 10 month old son and he sees him every tuesday for sure and any other day that he can and takes him for a couple days at a time when he can. Hes a great father. He walks from the town where he lives and works to where the baby lives every time he goes to see him. And the quickest route is 38 miles and takes him over 13 hours to walk when no one picks him up… That’s effort and caring. And when he takes him for the night or two me and him pick him up and they stay here.
But last night the babies mother messaged him and said they are moving to Texas. She was dating this guy for a few months and they broke up a little less than 2 weeks ago. Now shes been dating a new guy since December 15th, so 5 days. He just moved to Texas a week ago and now the babies mother says she has it all planned out with him to take the baby and move to Texas. Shes been with the guy for FIVE days! How can she have that “all planned out” when the guy himself has only been there 7 days and doesn’t even have a job there yet?? You cant make a decision like that in 5 days! Maybe if it didn’t involve a baby but it does. She says the only reason why shes going is to find a job because the economy is terrible. Umm… Shes had a stable good paying job for the last 2 years and shes still working there… My boyfriend has a great paying job and supports his son very well. Shes 20 years old and I think shes just excited and really rushing into this and only thinking about herself and not her baby or her family. Right now she lives with her father and has since the baby was born, shes never even tried to get her own place and shes never paid for a babysitter or daycare. She doesn’t pay any bills she just buys tons and tons of clothes for herself and the baby then the whole paycheck is gone. That’s great that he has plenty of clothes but shes literally giving half of it away because he doesn’t even have the chance to wear anything before he grows out of it. My boyfriend buys 100% of his diapers and food and wipes and toys. She hasn’t saved any money and I guess this guy is paying for their tickets. She cant even handle taking care of him for a weekend by herself because her parents left the state for a wedding for 2 days so she was with the baby alone and she was calling my boyfriend screaming at him to get down there because couldn’t take it anymore and the baby was screaming in the background and of course he was there as soon as he could be and she LEFT when he got there. So whats she going to do when theres never any family at all to help her with anything? Yeah you have to grow up sometime but she just doesnt have the patience thats needed to fully take care of a baby. Shes great with him but her step mother and her father babysit him all day while she works and weekends when shes out and continues doing mostly everything when shes there. She doesn’t have a car or a license and her new boyfriend doesnt have a car either and hes staying with his disabled aunt who also cant drive.
My boyfriend said that she cant take him to Texas. Hes getting the papers for parental rights as soon as he gets his next paycheck. I dont see any benifit in taking a baby away from his entire family who has been taking care of him and supporting him from day 1, its not fair to the baby or his family. Now I dont know the details for this stuff but once he gets the papers and everything taken care of for parental rights, will she still be able to take him out of state without the fathers permission? Hes very worried and extremely upset about this. Her family doesnt even know what shes planning. She said that the court will let her take him and not care about what he wants because shes the one who has the roof over the babies head.. Noo, her parents have a roof over hers and the babies head.. Yes she clothes him and puts him to bed at night but his father would love to do that as well but things didnt work out between them and after a certain point he was only with her for the sake of his son and he was the one who woke up a few times every night to feed him while she just slept til noon every day then went to work. He couldnt even get a job til after he moved out and broke up with her because she wouldnt do a darn thing when it came to taking care of the baby so he was a stay at home daddy.
Shouldnt every thing hes done and is doing mean something to the court? Will she not be allowed to take him out of state? (I also think the court would look down upon her rash dicision making!)

Britain as it stands is a constitutional monarchy. This means that the queen has the following list of powers: She can choose the prime minister, as well as dismissing ministers and governments. She can also dissolve Parliament as well as refusing to let its legislation occur. She can also dismiss the governments of the other countries which she is monarch of. She can issue royal pardons and declare a state of emergency. She can also issue proclamations as well as command the army and raise her own personal militia. Also she acts as a ceremonial head of state at most ceremonies. In our constitution, parliament has most of the power, and recently the House of Commons has taken most of the parliamentary power, leaving almost all the power in the hands of the people at every election. However almost all her power is thus purely theoretical as if she decided to use any of it, it would just be taken away from her.
Democracy is the founding principle of our civilisation. It is based on the principle that all of us are equal, something that a monarchy doesn’t seem to support as it seems to stipulate that one person, that is to say the monarch is better than everyone else.
The monarchy provides lots of tourism for the country thus helping to stimulate the economy. For example, many people came to watch the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s wedding. Also many people come to be shown round the palaces which the royal family owns. Also many people watched their wedding showing the support the monarchy still enjoys.
Hereditary succession makes a mockery of our claim to be fair and democratic as we are leaving one of the most important jobs in our country to an unelected official whom we have no way of removing. With a president with a fixed term of 5 years, we would have a more democratic selection method as well as a guarantee of the head of state’s competence.
The monarchy provides some continuity at the head of government and the face we present to the world. That’s something that no politician can provide. When I look at Tony Blair, for example whatever you may think of him – I see nothing meaningful from him on a national scale, pre-election. All politicians come and go, but monarchy is forever. With its traditions, its history, its ceremony, and with its standing and respect throughout the world, the British monarchy represents a unique national treasure, without which the United Kingdom would be sorely impoverished.
According to many republicans the monarchy absorbs taxpayers’ money. The monarchy is a drain on the resources of the UK as it consumes £40 million per annum. This is as much as it cost us to police the riots this summer. Which seems more important to you, have a monarch, or maintaining public order?
That is a ridiculous point in my opinion, because even if you replaced a monarch with a president, you still have to maintain the palaces, which is where most of the money is spent, not on paying the queen, who is paid much less than any MP is per hour spent on the job. A monarchy is, in fact, less costly to maintain than a republic because it spares the state the expense of holding presidential elections, and because the royal family’s private fortune may be enough for its own support, as against the public expenditures, in a republic, for the accommodations, pensions and other maintenance of incumbent and former presidents.
In conclusion I find that I don’t really mind whether we have a monarch or some form of elected official, because both sides’ arguments cancel each other out. And thus I am in favour of maintaining the status quo.

Britain as it stands is a constitutional monarchy. This means that the queen has the following list of powers: She can choose the prime minister, as well as dismissing ministers and governments. She can also dissolve Parliament as well as refusing to let its legislation occur. She can also dismiss the governments of the other countries which she is monarch of. She can issue royal pardons and declare a state of emergency. She can also issue proclamations as well as command the army and raise her own personal militia. Also she acts as a ceremonial head of state at most ceremonies. In our constitution, parliament has most of the power, and recently the House of Commons has taken most of the parliamentary power, leaving almost all the power in the hands of the people at every election. However almost all her power is thus purely theoretical as if she decided to use any of it, it would just be taken away from her.
Democracy is the founding principle of our civilisation. It is based on the principle that all of us are equal, something that a monarchy doesn’t seem to support as it seems to stipulate that one person, that is to say the monarch is better than everyone else.
The monarchy provides lots of tourism for the country thus helping to stimulate the economy. For example, many people came to watch the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s wedding. Also many people come to be shown round the palaces which the royal family owns. Also many people watched their wedding showing the support the monarchy still enjoys.
Hereditary succession makes a mockery of our claim to be fair and democratic as we are leaving one of the most important jobs in our country to an unelected official whom we have no way of removing. With a president with a fixed term of 5 years, we would have a more democratic selection method as well as a guarantee of the head of state’s competence.
The monarchy provides some continuity at the head of government and the face we present to the world. That’s something that no politician can provide. When I look at Tony Blair, for example whatever you may think of him – I see nothing meaningful from him on a national scale, pre-election. All politicians come and go, but monarchy is forever. With its traditions, its history, its ceremony, and with its standing and respect throughout the world, the British monarchy represents a unique national treasure, without which the United Kingdom would be sorely impoverished.
According to many republicans the monarchy absorbs taxpayers’ money. The monarchy is a drain on the resources of the UK as it consumes £40 million per annum. This is as much as it cost us to police the riots this summer. Which seems more important to you, have a monarch, or maintaining public order?
That is a ridiculous point in my opinion, because even if you replaced a monarch with a president, you still have to maintain the palaces, which is where most of the money is spent, not on paying the queen, who is paid much less than any MP is per hour spent on the job. A monarchy is, in fact, less costly to maintain than a republic because it spares the state the expense of holding presidential elections, and because the royal family’s private fortune may be enough for its own support, as against the public expenditures, in a republic, for the accommodations, pensions and other maintenance of incumbent and former presidents.
In conclusion I find that I don’t really mind whether we have a monarch or some form of elected official, because both sides’ arguments cancel each other out. And thus I am in favour of maintaining the status quo.

first of all am not married. if i were then i probably would not be asking this question.
but am curious. a lot of my married friends complain about how their wives are controlling and put them second to the kids, about how some times their women openly disrespect them infront of friends and family and the worst of all(to me atleast) how they knowingly deny them sex and blame them for almost everything that goes wrong in tha r/ship. some of these men prefer to work late rather than go home to their wives which i think is just wrong, then agen am not in their shoes.
again the divorce rate is 50% and 66% of these are initiated by women who usually have more to gain from the divorce. it makes me wonder if SOME women are more in love with the wedding than the marriage, and are more in love with the idea of being married to someone than they are with the someone they are marrying.
what do you think??