Is it too soon to ask her to be my date at my brothers wedding?
I met this girl just before new years through one of my best friends and his girlfriend (her best friend) She is mormon, but ive met/worked with and for mormon people before, and she is in no way strange to me. She is super down to earth, genuine person, and I know she wont push her religion on me.. I completely respect her and her views, and I would never change that. I actually went out to where she lives (20mins away) to spend new years with her and some of her friends. Everytime she is in town we hang out, movies, dinner, random adventures…. ect. Weve talked about plans for roadtrips, baseball games, amusement parks, ect and now we are going to 6flags next week. My friends gf told me that her friend likes me, wants to hangout more and get to know me more. I told her also that i really dig her friend and would like to know her more also. The 4 of us often hangout, and her and i end up alone. We can conversate, usually random, playful conversations (she is very sarcastic, fun, funny, fun to be around as am i) Weve had about 2-3 serious hangout seshs where we actually got to know alot about eachother (at the begining) but it seems she is opening up to me more everytime now. Last time we went to dinner, and i was not shy at all, all 4 of us hung out, drove out of town at night to see some gravity hill thing and the ride we were joking alot together ect. things got more touchy (hands, arm, i touched her leg, (non sexual) she put her freezing cold hand on my face and giggled. she punched my arm jokingly… ect. She occaisionally finds ways to start teasing conversations on my facebook posts, and she does start text conversations at times, but i am the one usually starting them, but when i do, we joke around like we do in person, and it goes on for hours, and when we hang next time, we continue with what happened in the texting.
She teases me alot, and i find ways to tease her back, to keep the fun and comfortness going. This last time we hungout, she showed me a picture of her fathers gravestone, and basically opened more information out to me.
Im thinking she is growing more comfortable with me?? (my thinking is that is why she hasnt told me she likes me, but i can see it, and her friend her friend secretly let me know)
I really like her, and can see her as a great match for me, but i dont want to push too much too fast, how do i go about this??
I mentioned when i first met her in conversation that my brother was getting married in april, how can i ask her to be my date, but hint that it is as a sincere date?? The wedding is in begining of april….
What steps should i persue in general next?? What is too much??
Also, in a week and a half i am heading to her part of town, (my friends band is playing) should i invite her to join me??
My friends gf told me her friend likes me and if i like her to be patient with her, because she likes to take things really slow…… Could this be why i start more text messages? and why she is slowly opening up more and more?? (touching, punch, closeness, more even more teasing back and forth, nicknames, calling me dork)
Any tips on any parts of my “novel” up here haha
How could i go about this entire thing??
I am going on 24, and she is going on 23.