Wedding Planning Tips

And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be honest here.
Think before answering.
It’s not “someone who is kind and considerate.”
I know that through observation.
People often complain about how demanding and self-centered their friends are. And yet, they are still friends w/ them.
An example of this is Bridezillas. Look how obnoxious those girls behave and yet their bridesmaids are still friends w/ them. I know that’s an extreme example bc brides behave different than they normally would, but I see thoughtless, inconsiderate ppl with several friends ALLLLL THE TIME.
Why do they have so many friends when they just aren’t nice people?

Eated.

I know some couples plan their wedding with
1. the guests in mind
2. the family in mind
3. the couple in mind
4. the bride in mind (haha)
what was the best wedding you went to and what made it top other weddings?

Studied with guy at college library….and i thought it was nice so asked if he wants to again.
The text convo – Friday night
Me: Hi~ do you have breaks on wed? wanna study together?
Him:Hi, I dont know yet, maybe ill introduce my gf to you if she is coming as well, haa, you will have one more tutor!
Me: oooo is she the one you met at new shift?
Him: No, we are good now (his ex….he had told me he didnt want to get back with her)
Me: Awww that is great
Him:
Him: Just don’t mention it when you see her…haha
Me: Mention what? (I guess that girl from his shift)
Him: Oh nevermind
Him: I will let you know then, gonna cook now
Me: Ah anyways, let me know later if you guys wanna study…or just chat…on wed. my break is 3-5. (sent this at same time he sent the above message)
Me: Have fun
Him: Sure! Thx and have a great weekend!
Me: You too!
Then on Sunday -
Me: Hi again~ I actually won’t be able to meet on wed, other plans came up. sorry Maybe another day!
Him: Hi, Ok don’t worry, let me know when you are able to…and you can send your draft to me again online!
Me: Aww thanks
Him: No problem!
Could I still ask if he wants to meet? I don’t plan to flirt…..but I dont want him to bring gf….awkward.
Which text is better?
A. Hi~ do you have breaks today or tomorrow?
B. Hi~ do you have breaks today or tomorrow? Need your help with assignment
C. Hi~ will you head to library today or tomorrow?
If he text back, can I text:
Hi~ ok see you then. but could you please don’t bring your gf…I understand you two are together though.

I am planning my own, but I have a “Day of” coordinator as well. I don’t need help with finding the vendors, staying on budget, making choices, etc. I do need someone to do all the running around and finicky detail work the day of the wedding. I know quite a few event planners because I’m in the business and it’s split about 50/50. The most frequent reason I heard for not planning their own was that they were too busy planning their client’s events. Nearly everyone used a day of coordinator though. The exceptions were the couple of destination weddings and the surprise wedding.

My to be mother in law….she was a pain in my rear….wanting to run things her way…etc

It seems only the Asian Pacific women that gives us any time of the day….
Whilst the other women African, Indian, Middle Eastern, and especially Latinas don’t even care about us…
It may seem like the Asian women like us but its always mail order bride types… otherwise they would’nt give us the time of the day!
So why do we think we are the most desired?

I am deciding between these careers, and money isn’t going to be the reason I choose a particular one, but which of these jobs pays the most? least?
1. Wedding planner
2. Teacher
3. Chef

I am trying to start an on-line business, I was planing to sell wedding favors firstly, but I was told by Ashley that the wedding favors nowadays are not as popular as before, few people will try to buy such things for their weddings. I am sooooo frustrated, would anyone give me some suggestions? What things would you like to buy from the internet the most? Your answers would be much appreciated!

Just wondering if most brides out there still wear a veil these days or do you think it is a bit old fashioned?
Also in any weddings that you’ve seen or been in, did the bride actually wear the veil over her face to walk down the aisle or did she just leave it hanging at the back??