So at the beginning of the school year, my friend had a crush on this guy. My other friend, who LOVES having a laugh, told her to try to get with my crush (they dont know hes my crush) whos in my friends class. Ok so my friend…isn’t exactly the prettiest girl. she is EXTREMELY hairy and kind of chubby. But i find her pretty cause she has a gorgeous personality. ok so my other friend started writing the notes for her, which included disturbing things like i know where you live baby and you are the jelly to my peanut and justin bieber and selena gomez lyrics and much more. he used to sit next to me and i was the one who told him she liked him. he got freaked out. when he got the letters, which went on for like 2 months, i would laugh really loudly and obvious and he would always tell me and my friend to stop. once, another friend of mine found out (and he hates her) and me and her started planning a wedding for them, and he told ME to stop and not her like 1000x (and ofc my friend to stop sending him notes) so then after he told me to stop he sat down and started laughing telling me the stuff he read in the note. but i just laughed and didnt really talk to him. he’s in 8th grade, i’m in 7th but im supposed to be in 8th..i started school late. there was this 6th grader who had talked to him before and idk what she told him and he tickled her like WTF? anyway…we’ve locked eyes like a bajillion times. he just had a blank expression. but i think it was because i was starring at him lol. once i was going to my bus and he was waiting for his friend or something and we met eyes and he just froze. i looked away ofc. well he teased me once by getting my book and acting as if it was his and not wanting to give it back, he would like act as if he was gonna give it and didn’t and copied my facial expression…but i acted serious and didnt laugh and he looked a bit annoyed cause at the end he was here in a really mean way why would he do this if he didnt like me
So my fiance and I have been engaged almost a year now. She has a daughter from a previous relationship, and I have been instrumental in solidifying her legal rights to her. I’ve been a major part of the daughters life, helped with potty training, taught her to count, etc. and she calls me daddy. My fiance has become distant lately. She makes tons of excuses to not hang out. We haven’t had sex in over 3 months, and probably have only done it 5 times since January. My fiance currently goes to school 2 days a week and has to drive 100 miles to do so. She also works around 24 hours a week. The other day, she decided she wanted to cancel the wedding indefinately, until she can finish school. Then last night, she informed me that she plans on moving to the town her college is in 5 days a week, then coming back here on weekends to see her daughter and to work. Her daughter would be raised by the grandparents at this point.
Whenever I ask what is wrong, I am told nothing. I put up with everything she throws at me, but can’t help having the feeling that she’s wanting nothing to do with me, unless I have money for her. I am in love, and I’ve put up with quite a bit because of love. I figure things are bad now, but they can get better. I guess my question is, why should I continue? Her daughter is my daughter in my heart, and I would do anything for them. I just feel like we are taking steps backwards. We are both nearly 30, and I have a house, 2 cars, a great job, and I’m never abusive. I am the perfect boyfriend. All I want is to not be given excuses for why we can’t see each other. You would think that being engaged, and raising a child together, along with the love would compel her to make time for me.
It’s not just the sex and time together. I’m not normally a jealous person, but she’s now saying she wants to go out with some girl friends, whom she has never spoken of or let me meet. She wants to go out to the bars on Halloween, a night that I know is a classic hookup night. I don’t think she would cheat on me, but I gave the feeling she might do other things, like succumb to drugs. She is an ex drug addict, I’ve never touched the stuff. She’s gone out with friends before, and ended up having a horrible time (her girl friends tried to get her to cheat on me one time, another time they ended up at a high school party and her friends tried to get her to use again.)
I’m torn what to do. Do I keep on hoping things will get better? Do I take the mindset of military personnel and accept that we can be together but not physically together. Do I just end things, cut my losses, and hope to find that love again? It’s hard to throw it all away, but I’m not happy. I even ask her what I can do to make her happy, and she says I do everything perfect. But she refuses to change. It’s not like I’m asking her to change everything about her, I just want the assurance that we will be able to see each other daily, be intimate, and raise our child together.
I woke up with morning wood… I am most every morning now. I’m much more aroused than usual today, already masturbated and orgasmed twice and still extremely aroused! I’m in a long distance relationship and my gf want’s me to stop the habit of doing it to myself and she will do the same and not do it either. She wants us to save it for our wedding night. I am trying but it is very difficult. And today is crazy! Any ideas? What can I do? What can I do when I am super aroused and “hard” and be able to not touch it and be good.
Sometimes I get very sore if I don’t go all the way with it. But I am trying…
Thanks in advance…
I have been completely faithful to my fiance, we got engaged after two months. We love each other to death.
But ever since the wedding planning has came into play he’s acting different
I got nice long hair. I just do not like my hair down as i get hot very easy i need it off my neck. I am considering cutting it all off like i did before and having short hair but not sure if want to do it as it the summer and i be cooking when it grows back as it grows at a good pace. or was thinking getting like an up do but not sure. i am a big girl so i don’t know how it will look and all. just was wondering if anybody got an idea. I know their not much choices but just wondering. I just don’t want to over do it and go so fancy by getting my hair done. but i just wondering what all think. thanks
My boyfriend and I are getting married this summer. He’s in AIT training right now, he joined the Army before we started dating and he’s going to be back in about two weeks. He said he bought my ring the other day, he’s been wearing one he bought himself a while ago already and that he officially purchased mine now. He’s said for months that he has this special day planned for when he’s going to propose, then once we go to a City Hall and get our marriage certificate/married that way, we’re going to move to Colorado which is where he’s stationed next. We will either live on base or off-base, we can’t figure that out yet until we get there. We’ve talked about and planned this all out months ago, even before he went to Bootcamp, and we’re both so excited to start this new chapter as one.
I understand he’s the man in the relationship and wants to take care of everything about this situation, but I can’t help being ancy and wanting to know details! The plan is after he proposes on this day he has planned, we would go to a local City Hall and get married that way, then plan out a real wedding ceremony a year or two later. I’ve been trying to get some information out of him recently because I’m just so excited and anxious. I said, “So are we going to show off our rings after we’re officially married or…what?” then he said, “I’ve got this planned, you’re kind of ruining the surprise here! Typically people propose, get engaged, everything will be fine and taken care of don’t ruin it!”. I guess I should just stop freaking out and getting ahead of myself here. There’s obviously no way for me to know every little thing just yet. I probably will ruin the surprise if I keep pushing for information. I think subconsciously I’m just worried that if we aren’t married the second after he proposes that for some reason that means it won’t happen and that everything we’ve been talking about and planning would just stop…which is stupid, why would that thought even subconsciouly cross my mind? I’m just being pushy and need to calm myself. My anxiousness is getting the best of me!
My Cousin-in-law got married and I was her Matron of Honor, today in the mail I got a check from her parents for 500$, with a thank you card, thanking me for everything I did for Kate. I did pretty much everything from picking up dresses, her make up, told everyone where to be, I was pretty much the cordinater (sp) the day before and the day of the wedding. But I love to do that kind of thing and would love to be a wedding planner. However I felt awkward getting a thank you check. I honestly have noidea what to do with the money.
Half of me wants a traditional wedding and the other half doesn’t. Mainly because 1- Me, my fiance, and my side dont dance so what else would we do? Plus we dont like being the center of attention. We aren’t the loud outgoing type either. 2- the cost. I’m sure we can do a lot of DIY to make it cheaper but still. 3- My mom wants to invite like all her friends and my sister’s friends and im like oi >.< Even more costs. I kind of only want a wedding just so I can design the invitations (im studying graphic design), the decorations, centerpieces, and just so i can look extra good.
And the other half of me wants a court wedding or just have a small intimate wedding where maybe we are on the beach and its our parents and the two of us and the officiator of course. That way its just about our love and we dont have to stress over the details that would go along with a traditional wedding.
BUT i dont want to just have something simple and quick. I still want to plan something nice but maybe not a huge traditional wedding. Are there any alternatives to a traditional wedding??
Career wise…
I am a 18yr old girl and I currently work in the Produce Department at my local supermarket. This isn’t where I want to be but I am saving a lot of money.
I am not really passionate about anything which makes it difficult for me to decide what to do.
Some of the careers I have been intrested are chefing/cooking, personal assistant, event planning/wedding planner, florist, hotel manager, I like the idea of running a hotel. When I was younger I had always wanted to be a journalist, I was interested in print journalism, I wanted to be a magazine editor I am still interested in journalism but I like hospitality better these days. I have done a year training as a hairdresser, but it gave me qualifications to be a salon assistant I did not pass everything I needed to to get to the next step.
Also I was homeschooled.
Sony keeps announcing mixed stuff. saying maybe the credit card info is stolen or maybe it isnt. what if they did take everyones credit card info? what should i do i’m really scared. it’s my dads and it has thousands. Also, Sony didnt meet up with their deadline saying it would be up by tues or wed, anyone have any idea when it’ll be back up?
