There are so many advantages girls get in this world that guys don’t. Here are just a few i could think of off the top of my head:
1. free drinks and free nightclub cover
2. dont have to be expected to work
3. can have any job and still get a bf. (no girl will want to date a guy who’s a barista at starbucks)
4. can listen to w/e music she wants (guys cant listen to softer music without being though of as gay)
5. dont have to get a guy any gifts
6. girls get to dictate when sex happens
7. can make a guy stop watching sports and pay attention to her, and she can have a marathon of The Bachelorette without the guy bothering her
8. she can shop with his credit card
9. she can get drunk without worrying about who’s going to walk her home
10. only her opinions matter in wedding planning
11. dont have to have a fancy car to get dates
12. Girls can wear w/e they want while guys are criticized for many different things they wear
13. legal courts favor women in divorce
14. can get away with many things because everyone thinks your’e the victim
15. can cheat and make the guy look like the bad guy
16. can use men’s bathrooms
17. get chivalry from men
18. dont have to ask anyone out
19. dont have to lead conversations
20. can accuse men of being pervs whenever they want (accuse men of being pervs if they join yoga classes)
21. dont have to spend money on guys
22. get immediate respect while guys have to earn theirs
23. doesn’t need a high paying job or a job at all to get dates
24. can say “girls are always right” or “it’s just the way it is” or “it’s in our DNA, deal with it” to justify every argument
So how is it harder being a girl? It really sounds like they have it made and have many things working in their favor
I woke up with morning wood… I am most every morning now. I’m much more aroused than usual today, already masturbated and orgasmed twice and still extremely aroused! I’m in a long distance relationship and my gf want’s me to stop the habit of doing it to myself and she will do the same and not do it either. She wants us to save it for our wedding night. I am trying but it is very difficult. And today is crazy! Any ideas? What can I do? What can I do when I am super aroused and “hard” and be able to not touch it and be good.
Sometimes I get very sore if I don’t go all the way with it. But I am trying…
Thanks in advance…
Please anyone reading this help me out a little. About two months ago, me and my girlfriend of about 4 years broke up. It wasn’t my idea at all. We had been together since the beginning of high school and 3 months ago we graduated, even spent that night together. Had an amazing time.
She went to a wedding and then a few days after being there she called me and broke up with me. Let me give you a little background about us. All of our friend seen how much we cared about each other and they could never see us being apart. We were voted cutest couple in the yearbook our senior year. We planned everything together, spent every moment we possibly could together, we were always laughing and enjoying each others company when we were hanging out together. We had arguments and we did fight every now and then but that happens in relationships, the arguments were never that bad. We were always joking around with each other and laughing a few minutes or hours after arguing. I love that girl to death and I’d do anything for her. Anything at all.
When she called to break up with me she was saying things about not knowing what shes going to want in life and saying things like shes young and wants to live a little and I’m keeping her from living. I basically begged her not to do it but it didn’t work. Oh and by the way we have broke up 2 other times before this but we always stay friends and talk a lot afterwards. Shes broke up with me all those other times. She broke up with me the other times basically for the same reason. But I have noticed a few things. She is always hanging out with her cousins when she decides to break things off between me and her. So after we broke up I went about a week without eating and I kept talking to her every now and then. One day I woke up and decided that since she was out having all the fun she wanted to have I was going to do the same and I did so. I talked to a few people and met a really great girl.
Me and this girl started talking and getting really close. We talked for a month and hung out and everything. She was great. She was everything I could ask for in a girl. BUT I just couldn’t get my ex “Kayla” off my mind. It seems like during the time I spent having my fun and trying to get over her. I was in denial or something. I kept telling everyone that I was over her and never wanted her back. But here recently I realized that I was lying to myself as well as others. So me and this other girl “Sarah” have ended things. Due to my lying about still having feelings for Kayla. I didn’t mean to hurt her as bad as I did, It was because I was lying to myself and I didn’t take the time I needed to get over Kayla. I still am not over Kayla and to be honest I don’t think I ever will be. This happens every time me and her break up.
We are now talking daily and getting along but she doesn’t know that I feel how I do. This is also what happened all the other times. The other times I end up telling her how I feel because I can’t hold it in anymore and she comes back to me and things are perfect for a while. Then we break up again. I know that I want to be with her for the rest of my life. I know that me and her would be very happy together. We are going to the same college and have almost every class together. I don’t know what’s gonna happen between me and her during out years together at the college. I am hoping that college brings us closer together. Or I see that I don’t need her or want her, but I don’t think that’s what’s going to happen. I have been depressed for a few days ever since admitting to myself that I do want her back and I do miss her. She went through a phase where she wasn’t acting like herself for a while after we broke up but now she’s starting to calm down again it seems. I’m not going to take any risks though. I have been waiting to see when she is going to be ready to settle down and enjoy being together. I don’t know if she’ll want me or anything. I just know I want her, I love her, and I know that me and her could be amazing together if we get together again.
I need some advice badly. Lately i have been talking to her a lot and I need to talk to her about this but I am scared to death to do it. I am afraid that what she says wont be what I need to hear. Shes my best friend and she has also told me recently that part of her still belongs to me. Shes been talking about hanging out with these other guys and everything. We spent a night a few days ago in her car. Her car windows were fogged up too bad because it had been raining and nothing would work to unfog them so we just layed there in here car all night talking, nothing happened besides us talking. She said things about how shes glad shes there with me and not someone else. I dont know if she wants to be with me again.
My fiancee is great. Every aspect of our relationship is great, we’ve lived together so we know each others weird quirks, we’ve had big fights and gotten through them… One problem is, he was only around for the first part of our planning the wedding. He then left for boot camp and I’ve been home planning the wedding with my mother without him. I’m scared to go see him when he graduates because it’s been a long time. What if he’s not… him? What if it’s awkward? What if I can’t take being married to a Marine?
I know I love him. There’s nothing not to love. I’m just really scared and anxious. We’re young and we’re so different… what if I’m wrong? He’s so sweet, he’s cared for me and has been my friend for years and he’s been my fairy tale prince but this is reality. So what if he’s loved me since high school? He’s been patient with me and good to me beyond any expectation I would have of anyone but can that really continue? If he was home maybe I wouldn’t be scared, maybe I could talk to him and he would make it better but he’s NOT home and I CAN’T talk to him. I’m… getting married… and the reality is daunting.
no need to read all of it.
do you think she likes me? we’ve been studying alot. we used to tease each other constantly and still do but not as much. i think stress from school has played a factor but cant know for sure… i know she cares for me and got mad at me when i told her i nearly fell asleep when driving home from school.
girl i like… she no longer calls me pet names and now just calls me by my name for most part. however she had suggested we go get desert after finals. and then other day she saw picture of delicious food on friends facebook and was like oh that looks good… ive never been there.. then i was like lets go and she smiled and say yeah.
unfortunately 6-7 weeks ago she had appendicitis and had her appendix taken out, but after it had ruptured and infected her system. shes been busy with school and stubborn so hasnt gone in for post surgery apptment. the other day her belly had acted up in what i thought would be her first week of being able to walk normal again. so now she may cancel those dates… and has scheduled to go in a few days after finals which would be after what was suppose to be our hangouts…
background info:
ive known for about 2 years now. been talking alot with intent of trying to date her for past two months. she had appendicitus so that sort of interfered with my plans but gave me a excuse to try help her around. we are taking summer classes together and basically study together everyday. if shes not with me she’ll be by herself on campus even though she sort of know some guys on campus but dont hang with them. earlier in summer she invited me to her lil brothers birthday party and said her grandma would love me (im well mannered) but then backed off saying it was a fam thing and would be wierd. i invited her to a wedding dinner she said yes then backed off cause she said she didnt want to ask off work after taking 5 weeks off. we have finals next week and she suggested we go get some desert after finals.. today i suggested we go study at a cofee shop so thats the plan… its not at a midpoint location rather than near campus. this will be the 2nd time we hanged together off campus.. the first time we went to see movies when she was in her last relationship (spring break).. she said she was uber bored so we decided to spontaneously go to movies.. iono if it was used to get her mind off of things… like 1-2 weeks later she ended things with her bf and said she wasnt hurt by it and was saying relationships are complicated…. a week ago she told me that they shouldve just stayed friends and it was a mistake on her part…also last week she told me about how she was treated in hs and jr high and mentioned her two boyfriends so i know she has had 4 boyfriends in all…. also someone i dated (i think; still unknown) started texting her to see if we were dating and she would show me this… and was just like i wanna know who this is….
Me and my first husband married in May 2010 and separated in June 2010. We never divorced because I never had the money to pay for a court hearing and now I am engaged to my second husband. We don’t have the money to get me a divorce, since we spend it all (of our refund checks) on our wedding in October and there’s no way we can spend much more on my divorce.
My husband suggested I check single on our marriage licence when we file in October and not mention to the clerk about my first marriage. Then we can go on and marry without putting off our wedding since we don’t ordered invitations with our current date and made all the plans.
Then next year with our next tax returns, we will simply then get me a divorce from my first ex and then me and my husband quietly remarry if the court asks us too.
My fiancee says this will be legal in the long run and if the court does find out before next year, then our second marriage will simply be invalid and we will just marry again without saying a word to anyone.
Whats the worse than can happen? Is this a good idea? I am 21 and my fiancee is 22 and neither of us know much about laws. We both work and live to be happy.
I’m going to be getting married in Cyprus and there is an option for wedding guests to buy vouchers towards the wedding, does anyone have any ideas of how I can put this in a wedding invitation without seeming tacky/cheeky?
I’m helping my cousin to plan her wedding which is going to be this November. She is on a strict budget of $1,000 for her reception. We already have the venue and after calculating the rest of the costs we’ve decided she only has about $6 she can spend per person on food. We are going to do a buffet because we figured that it would be cheapest. There are going to be 60-75 people attending. So can anyone help me to plan out a menu to fit her budget.
I think she’s pretty much open, on the types of food she wants to have.
Thank you,
Shelby and Jen
I am 5′9″ and my bride to be is 5′8″. We do everything together, even shopping. She bought her shoes and they have a 5 1/2 inch heel and a 1 1/2 inch platform in the front. She said it is her night and she wants to be completely stunning. And that it will look better with the length of her dress.
Obviously though, she is going to be 6′ 1 1/2″ on our wedding night and the slip ons that I wear have pretty much no heel at all, so I’ll be staring up at her, which I’ve never done before.
Will we look funny as a couple? Should I invest in some lifts? I really don’t want her to ever be taller than me, it hurts my ego and I don’t want her to see me as someone who is shorter than her, even for a second. I’ve always been the dominant one in the relationship, Advice?
I was going to send them some of my home-cured smoked venison. I kill and cure the deer myself and I know the Royals love hunting too! Is that a good idea?
