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My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years; He is 23 years old and I am 18 right now. He proposed to me about 3 weeks ago and he said we can get married whenever I’m ready, because he’s ready. He said we can wait as long as I want or we can get married tomorrow. However, we both decided we don’t want to wait too long. We decided we want to get married at the end of next summer and we have already made small plans, but we need to get a planner before we can go into detail….and we are having a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends at the beach/next to the beach.
The only down side is that my parents are not super supportive. I find this hypocritical of them because they wed when my mom was 19 (my dad was 20) and they had my brother at 20/21. And my parents only dated for like 3 months before they got married, where as I have been with my fiance for 3 years.
But I’m totally ready to be a wife and spend my life with him. I want to live with him and create a home for us to grow and (eventually) start a family.
I don’t live with my parents ( I live in an apartment thats like 10 mins away from their house) and I can definately afford to get married…I have a job and a good sum of money saved up incase i need more. And my fiance makes plenty of money so I wouldn’t have to worry about fianaces for now. But I still want to finish college & have my own career.
My parents say I should wait until I’m done with college, but that’s in over 3 years!!!(and that’s if I graduate on time, but that seems impossible because it’s so hard to get the proper classes).
I do not want to still be engaged in 3 years! that is way to long. In 3 years we would have been dating for a total of 6 years, which is hellla. why not get married? what’s the point of everything being the way it is for another 3 years. In 3 years i would love to celebrate our 2 year anniversary.
I know he is the one for me, there is not a single doubt in my mind. He is my other half….we bring out the best in eachother and we have all the same life goals and values. We recently went on a super romantic trip to Portugal and the Azores and that made me love him even more because I see how much we enjoy the same thing and we both want to do a lot of traveling to exotic locations. We’re both the types of people who would go “wherever the wind blows.”
But it hurts me that my parents aren’t on the same page as us. I asked my mother if we could go to Los Angeles some time before February to shop for wedding gowns, and she’s not supportive at all. She’s like why spend money if you’re not sure….which is bologna because the only one not sure is her.
My fiance’s family, on the other hand, is so supportive! When I told her about my mom and the dress situation,she offered to take me to NEW YORK! to shop for a gown ( She lives in TN by the way) and she’s so into this process.
BTW we are not having any kids for a while (possibly 10 years or more) because we want to travel as much as possible before all that.
I’m so sad my parents aren’t supportive.
Any advice to ease their feelings? Thnx
BTW what’s your view on living together before marriage? I want to live with him, but at the same time I feel like that that is what makes marriage special, and should be saved for that.
Everywhere around you there are people, teachers, work colleagues, relatives, friends expecting you to get married. If you don’t, you are something of an outcast.
So, you get married, yet have little say in the wedding ceremony. You help pay for her dress and flowers, but you are not allowed to see it (only her friends and family can see it, because your taste cannot be relied upon). If you ask to see it, you are somehow ’strange’.
You sign on the dotted line, and half of your property/income becomes hers. On the wedding night, this time ‘yes’ you are permitted to have a ’say’ and, in fact, if you do nothing, the wedding can be annuled for non-consummation.
All the guests expect you to consummate, otherwise the marriage is invalid and somehow irreligious. In other words, there is an expectation to ‘do it’. Knowing that they were metaphorically listening at the door, I myself wouldn’t be able to summon up the least bit of enthusiasm. There may as well be a Web cam in the room.
And in the morning, your new mother-in-law will ask her daughter (she won’t ask both of you, because you are not important) ‘how did it go?’. What impertinence! How intrusive!
Then, like a good man, you will be expected to produce offspring – though hospital staff will ensure you are second-best during the pregnancy you won’t even be involved if they can help it) because your role on the stage has come to an end.
Is this why married life, which seems to be weighed very much in favour of the woman in its most important aspects, is to be rejected?
Everywhere around you there are people, teachers, work colleagues, relatives, friends expecting you to get married. If you don’t, you are something of an outcast.
So, you get married, yet have little say in the wedding ceremony. You help pay for her dress and flowers, but you are not allowed to see it (only her friends and family can see it, because your taste cannot be relied upon). If you ask to see it, you are somehow ’strange’.
You sign on the dotted line, and half of your property/income becomes hers. On the wedding night, this time ‘yes’ you are permitted to have a ’say’ and, in fact, if you do nothing, the wedding can be annuled for non-consummation.
All the guests expect you to consummate, otherwise the marriage is invalid and somehow irreligious. In other words, there is an expectation to ‘do it’. Knowing that they were metaphorically listening at the door, I myself wouldn’t be able to summon up the least bit of enthusiasm. There may as well be a Web cam in the room.
And in the morning, your new mother-in-law will ask her daughter (she won’t ask both of you, because you are not important) ‘how did it go?’. What impertinence! How intrusive!
Then, like a good man, you will be expected to produce offspring – though hospital staff will ensure you are second-best during the pregnancy you won’t even be involved if they can help it) because your role on the stage has come to an end.
Is this why married life, which seems to be weighed very much in favour of the woman in its most important aspects, is to be rejected?
