Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas 
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!
Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!
Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!
Should i do one quick thrust to break her hymen and get it over with quickly, or stretch it slowly with my fingers.
I’ve been reading conflicting bits of information over the web about what hurts least (because i want her to have a painless, and enjoyable experience) and i’m totally confused… If sex is so natural, why does it have to hurt so much to a girl? I heard that sex when the girl is in her 20’s is hardly painful the first time and is just when the girl is nervous, it hurts.
I’m going to marry my girlfriend when i finish my education, and we’re going to lose our virginities (pl?) to each other on our wedding night. That’s the idea anyway.
From what i’ve researched about this: this is my plan on the wedding night/honeymoon. Feel free to correct/improve it, as i’m no expert (obviously).
1. Make her very relaxed (without the use of alcohol). Perhaps a massage with candles and special scented oils and such. My mum used to study aromatherapy, so i’ll borrow a book from her.
2. Caress her in innocent places at first, then start to kiss her and move on to the more naughty areas
3. Concentrate on giving at least 15 minutes foreplay and trying to get her very wet around her vagina and that general area. Insert fingers to stretch that area until i can fit a few fingers in already.
4. Insert penis there and have face to face intercourse. Thrust very slowly, progressively going deeper.
Etc…
That’s all! I’m only 18, so i have at least 5 more years until i can marry my girlfriend (we’ve been together for almost 4 years). And so i’ll appreciate all the help/advice you can offer! Thanks for your time!
Him and I met like 30 some years ago and moved in together. But after about 7 months, I got a job at a dance place with performers, and soon enough I was assistant manager. He got upset because I was spending so much time there, but I needed the money, and I loved my job. I threatened him many times to move, and one night me had gone, and I knew it was all my fault. I was 32. I found out I was going to have a daughter and she was great. You are probably wanting me to get to the point. Well now my girl is getting married and she badly wanted to meet her father, and she is very smart and was able to find him using old phone numbers and who knows what. She still lives with me thought she is moving out soon, and a few weeks before the wedding, she went and invited her father to stay in our house. I was not for the idea at first, but I knew how much she wanted him to come, so yes, I agreed. Now the wedding is soon, and I am so into him again. We have great times together when my daughter is gone and we laugh and talk, and he said that he was sorry and so did I. I actually took him back to the dance place and I did a privet show for him and he loved it. I want him to know I like him still before he leaves again. We haven’t kissed, and I am old enough (almost 60 :p blah) to know he loves me back. We watched the notebook, and Moonstruck and we can’t help just looking at each other and even the hand holding thing. I just need to have the guts to make him stay. how do I do that?
Hi theree! I need a little help with some creative writiiing! Im currently playing Tzeitel in fiddler on the roof.. and in matchmaker, my director is skeptical about the second part of the bride that goes
Chava! I found him won’t you be a lucky bride! He’s handsome, he’s tall! That is from side to side but he’s a nice man a good catch right? right. You’ve heard he has a temper he’ll beat you every night but only when he’s sober,, so you’re alright!
My director doesn’t want to portray domestic violence in the beat you every night part… sooo what im asking is….. do you think you ccan come up with new words that rhyme for this part soo it can remain in the soong to make it easier instead of cutting it oout..?!
You’ve heard he has a temper he’ll beat you every night but only when he’s sober,, so you’re alright!
Please help. I’ve asked this question 3 times already!
We just fired our wedding planner… And, I’m afraid to hire anymore so we are planning our own wedding what time should the ceremony and reception start? I don’t want it to be to early in the day or to late in the day for our guest to arrive?
I was watching say yes to the dress today and saw a beautiful gown that I believe a brides mother pulled. Claudia was complaining about girls who are first time shoppers and then she wasn’t even able to pull the right dress for the girl. I would really like to know what dress this is. It was a sweetheart top with a flowing bottom I believe it was A-Line. Thank you for your help in advance
Please help me out..
I’ve been friends with this girl since kindergarten, so a bit over 20 years. I don’t know why. I was very shy and insecure as a child and she has a very controlling personality. I wrote in my diary when I was 8 or so about how much of a chronic liar she was, and that never changed. She’s incapable of saying, “I can’t hang out with you because I have plans with someone else.” Instead, she has to make up an elaborate excuse. I’m just the opposite. I think telling the truth is simpler all around.
We stopped talking for a while in high school because she was doing drugs and hanging out with college kids and I wasn’t comfortable with that. After we re-united midway through college, it’s like our roles have been reversed: I’m the confident, independent one and she’s insecure all the time, to the point that she copies everything I do, which drives me nuts because I like being weird. It’s also occurred to me in recent years that any two people who have been friends this long ought to be comfortable being open with each other and we’re not. She acts really shallow and fake around me and I’m just not comfortable sharing with her since she tries to steal every unique hobby or thought I have and pass it off as her own by doing the same thing more dramatically. And to make it worse, I feel like I’m always being called on to boost her self esteem while she b****es about how bad she looks in dressing rooms and I feel like I’m constantly doing her little favors and getting nothing out of it myself.
She’s planning her June wedding right now and I’m feeling more drained by her than ever. But her mother told my mother (in supposed confidence) that she wants me to be her maid of honor. She hasn’t asked me yet. I have nothing but negative feelings anymore for her and I don’t really like the guy she’s marrying either. I just want out.
I know this is a bad time to just stop talking to her, but I’m starting to feel like this friendship has been bad for me all along and I’ve reached a breaking point where I can’t take it anymore.
Is there ever a good time or way to break up a friendship or does it just come down to what I feel I have to do?
